
Originally Posted by
Captain Sensible
Dear Pooly, I am really shy with gals. What can I do to overcome this fear?
I'll give you a females point of view
This is something that takes time, you can't expect to wake up the following morning and be rid of this, it is a personality trait.
But don't be so quick as to try and overcome this completely! Some females find this quite an attractive trait to a certain point.
Why would you want to change yourself just to please others? I think you should question and examine your motives very carefully. Change only works on the film "Grease" in my opinion.
Being shy is what makes you, YOU. Try to learn how to accept this. And if females don't like this about you then it is best to forget them for your benefit.
But don't despair I'm sure you'll meet someone that will like this trait
- Now that was quite fun!
