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    It is also said that it helps to make your last experience a bad one, if possible. I myself got sick a couple of times from the combination of alcohol and nicotine.
    I think that giving oneself a good fright also helps. This activates the emotional/subconscious part of the brain. Ways of doing this include looking at articles which describe the last stages of lung/throat/tongue cancer. Photos too, of people with tubes coming out of them.
    The actor Yul Brynner died of smoking-related cancer and said he wished he'd never touched the bloody things (or words to that effect).

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    ^ sames reason I can no longer drink Pernod, eat samosa's or visit Poipet.

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    You can use this to your advantage ! Some psychologists say that we make most of our decisions subconsciously, and then our conscious minds just rationalize them.
    I can no longer think (many) naughty thoughts about Western women. And having been horribly sick in India, I simply cannot bring myself to return.....despite finding it rather culturally interesting.
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    same as you, my interest is in stopping people smoking the best way possible

    my personal history has nothing to do with this thread

    someone asked for advice, I gave it

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    well I would advise anyone who is reading this to take your advice with a large pinch of salt. If you were an ex smoker you would say so. As you refuse, we can assume you never have been a smoker or are still a smoker and therefore have no idea about the process of quitting.

    Move along, and let the thread help others if they want real substantive advice.

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    In my opinion, quitting smoking is a lot similar to quitting other addictive things. Some of us have been addicted to alcohol, some of us to other substances......probably the most notable being marijuana. Whether the addiction is physical, psychological or both, the process is similar. It involves our minds, and the most prominent thing we do when continuing the addiction (once it has been recognized) is RATIONALIZE continuing it. We make excuses to ourselves which seem quite reasonable.
    The physical addiction just makes it worse. However the number of people who have been able to go cold turkey (and I agree that some people can not) goes to show the power of the mind.
    It's this process of rationalization that I am interested in. I've recognized it in myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus View Post
    well I would advise anyone who is reading this to take your advice with a large pinch of salt. If you were an ex smoker you would say so. As you refuse, we can assume you never have been a smoker or are still a smoker and therefore have no idea about the process of quitting.

    Move along, and let the thread help others if they want real substantive advice.

    very useful post

    you know nothing about my past so your assumptions are a little stupid

    I don't want to bore anyone with my history of smoking and quitting, but I do want to tell people the best way to stop

    just stop, easy as that IF YOU WANT TO

    no crutches, no chemicals, no herbs

    just stop

    as I have already posted, the most difficult part is not stopping and overcoming the physical addiction, but resisting the mental urge to start again

    nothing can help you with that except your own strength of character
    I have reported your post

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    Actually the fact that you want to act all mysterious means that people should take you trail of differing advice with a large pinch of salt. Especially your "drink a glass of water" one.

    Why would people be bored with your quitting smoking experiences as that is what the thread is about? It's not about about you ragging on Ent and others. It's not about anything other than people talking about giving up smoking. So why would your personal experiences of quitting be boring?

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    I haven't kicked the habit yet but I'm pretty damn happy about what I've accomplished so far just by waking up in the morning and not having a smoke until sometime after I get home from work.

    I don't mind Dr Andy throwing in his 2 baht ... He's alright by me. I get a kick out of the posting style of just about everybody ... And I couldn't say that in the past. All this talk about banning or jailing posters for stalking and thread hijacking blows my mind ... Nobody can get under my skin unless I let them. Just scroll on by if you don't like something somebody posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus
    Actually the fact that you want to act all mysterious means that people should take you trail of differing advice with a large pinch of salt. Especially your "drink a glass of water" one. Why would people be bored with your quitting smoking experiences as that is what the thread is about? It's not about about you ragging on Ent and others. It's not about anything other than people talking about giving up smoking. So why would your personal experiences of quitting be boring?
    because I have posted it before, nothing mysterious there

    just for you, I smoked, I stopped, I never smoked again

    as for the "water" post, that was just a little satirical although the author was serious

    and I don't think a pinch of salt will stop anyone smoking, unless you have some research that proves it does?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Storekeeper
    I don't mind Dr Andy throwing in his 2 baht
    my posts were worth more than that

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrAndy View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by pseudolus
    Actually the fact that you want to act all mysterious means that people should take you trail of differing advice with a large pinch of salt. Especially your "drink a glass of water" one. Why would people be bored with your quitting smoking experiences as that is what the thread is about? It's not about about you ragging on Ent and others. It's not about anything other than people talking about giving up smoking. So why would your personal experiences of quitting be boring?
    because I have posted it before, nothing mysterious there

    just for you, I smoked, I stopped, I never smoked again

    as for the "water" post, that was just a little satirical although the author was serious

    and I don't think a pinch of salt will stop anyone smoking, unless you have some research that proves it does?
    Good - glad we agree then that the best way to stop smoking is to not smoke ever again

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrAndy View Post
    nothing can help you with that except your own strength of character
    Plus having a real good case of the flu and not wanting to pick up a smoke after that. Believe that's the way I put 'em down back in the day...

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    It's even happening in Russia, of all places:

    Russian politicians on Tuesday passed a bill banning smoking in public places, hoping to reduce the 400,000 smoking-related deaths each year in the country.
    The bill passed 441-1 in the Duma. It must now be approved by the upper house and signed by President Vladimir Putin.
    The ban on lighting up in bars and restaurants, as well as many other public places, would go into effect June 1, although some businesses may be granted a year-long waiver in order to smooth the transition.
    A tax increase on cigarettes is also anticipated, along with a rise in the minimum price for a pack, which can currently be purchased starting at one euro ($A1.31) .
    Russia has one of the highest smoking rates in the world, with an estimated 44 million nicotine addicts - or about one-third of the population.


    13 Feb 2013, 1:29 pm - Source: AAP
    Russian parliament to ban public smoking | SBS World News

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    There is nothing worse as a non smoker than when in a restaurant your meal just gets served then some bloody chimney comes along sits down on the table upwind of you , buys only a coffee then stinks your meal out.

    HOWEVER its a problem as I am sure they are enjoying their fag + coffee as I was my meal before they sparked up , we have to be tolerant of each others in a society ,, so I usually move upwind of them and drop me guts
    I'm proud of my 38" waist , also proud I have never done drugs

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    Nowadays, most restaurants don't allow smoking, although they allow it in some outside areas

    a big negative for the no smoking in cafes in London is that all the smokers now sit outside where I used to enjoy sitting and stink up the area

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    Quote Originally Posted by nigelandjan View Post
    There is nothing worse as a non smoker than when in a restaurant your meal just gets served then some bloody chimney comes along sits down on the table upwind of you , buys only a coffee then stinks your meal out.

    HOWEVER its a problem as I am sure they are enjoying their fag + coffee as I was my meal before they sparked up , we have to be tolerant of each others in a society ,, so I usually move upwind of them and drop me guts

    Hate that when I'm trying to enjoy a meal also. Usually get a reaction when you say to the smoker; "Excuse me. Thanks for sharing the residue of your drug addiction. I don't mind you inhaling that stuff, but could you blow the residue somewhere else? I like a drink now and again. Urine is the residue of my pleasure, -would you like me to piss all over your clothes, hair, and food?"

    Careful saying this to a German though..

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    Quote Originally Posted by kmart
    "Excuse me. Thanks for sharing the residue of your drug addiction. I don't mind you inhaling that stuff, but could you blow the residue somewhere else? I like a drink now and again. Urine is the residue of my pleasure, -would you like me to piss all over your clothes, hair, and food?"
    that is a bit long winded; you wouldn't even get to the end before being floored

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    As for me, I'm holding up.

    I don't necessarily think that the thread is "dead" if there are still people interested in it. I mean if it's going to die, it will die naturally. And if it is because the people that wanted to stop smoking ended up quitting--GOOD!

    If you haven't smoked, then you don't understand the addiction. It is a strong one, and a hard one to overcome because cigarettes are legal and you can pick them up at the store at any time.

    If you are a non-smoker, it's harder than you think. So if you are a non-smoker just saying "well just quit", it's rather insensitive. If it's coming from an ex smoker then it's coming from someone who's suffered through it too.

    And storekeeper, keep it up. You got to crawl before you can run. Even if you've managed to cut down the number of cigarettes, good for you. You're making progress.

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    as smokers get more and more marginalised, and cigarettes become less and less appealing, maybe the smokers out there will realise they are just dirty and selfish

    that may help them think about giving up

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrAndy View Post
    ....the smokers out there will realise they are just dirty and selfish...
    yeah...that's sort of what I mean about not understanding unless you've been an addict. I do admit that when I smoked I did stink, but I do have a more understanding and forgiving feeling towards smokers, present and past.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Submaniac
    As for me, I'm holding up.
    Good effort, keep it up!

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    *Damn this lack of edit!!!*

    By my (often comically incorrect) calculations, you've coming up on one month?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Submaniac View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by DrAndy View Post
    ....the smokers out there will realise they are just dirty and selfish...
    yeah...that's sort of what I mean about not understanding unless you've been an addict. I do admit that when I smoked I did stink, but I do have a more understanding and forgiving feeling towards smokers, present and past.

    So, I am wrong about that?

    smokers throwing their butts everwhere, thinking they are just small? even still lit - why do you think the verges of roads have the most fires?

    smokers lighting up and spoiling others enjoyment of the environment? the stink of smoke polluting the fresh air, or even spoiling others enjoyment of their meals?

    smokers making themselves sick so their families have to look after them?

    yes, dirty and selfish

    There are a few smokers who realise this and go out of their way to try not to make others suffer, but they are a minority, unfortunately

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    Quote Originally Posted by AntRobertson View Post
    *Damn this lack of edit!!!*

    By my (often comically incorrect) calculations, you've coming up on one month?

    Well considering that I started this thread on 1/27/13 after going 24 hours without a ciggie, and it's the 13th/14th of February...and if your using the comically incorrect calculations, yes it's been a month.

    I guess about 18 days or so...which is a start.

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