Daily Moan

[david44]

Feels like I've been stabbed in the stomach and kicked in the intestines, don't want to get up, don't want to stay in bed. Dumped by the GF, with very valid reasons, after 10 months together. The second longest relationship of my life.

Absolutely gutted.

Chin up it could be worse , you could be me

[NamPikToot]

^^ you have to believe that there's still hope and time

[Mendip]

^ Exactly, never give up.

There's someone for everyone out there.

[Bettyboo]

My fancy new pool water thermometer has stopped sending the temperature to the receiver, which is now just an expensive clock and calendar.



I've only had it for four days.

Piece of Chinese plastic shite.

Thank you for that moment of humour on an unhappy day. Although, I fully agrre that these pieces of plastic Chinese crap are very hit and miss - you've been unlucky with that one. (Have you tried hitting it with a hammer?)

[Bettyboo]

Feels like I've been stabbed in the stomach and kicked in the intestines, don't want to get up, don't want to stay in bed. Dumped by the GF, with very valid reasons, after 10 months together. The second longest relationship of my life.

Absolutely gutted.

Sorry to hear that mate. It'll come good or you'll find better.

[kingwilly]

Why believe a word that pathological liar says?

[Edmond]

She had just finished high school and turned 19 a few months earlier, moved to the big city alone to start university, was lucky enough to meet Ed while in the gym with 2 new classmates one fateful afternoon. A bit of a laugh, good chemistry and Line account swap, and that was it. A week or so later, after a motorbike ride which involved her writing I love you I love you I love you on my back with her finger the entire way. One of the first meals.





https://teakdoor.com/northern-thaila...ml#post4638201 (A day in the life in the North)

The last meal.



Microwaved frozen 7-11 hotdog fried rice, with a raw egg hatched on top before microwaving, then slathered in mayonais.... mayo and sweet chili sauce. With a side of breakup.

I cannot fault the reasons, I have kid duties 5 days/nights a week, and my 'days off' are midweek when she has uni, so no time to go to travel together once or twice a month on little breaks/weekends away, I am 45 and have no plan to marry, have another kid, or generally change my current settled life. She is 20 entered the relationship at 19 and will need to experience life, and at the end of her 20s probably look to settle down with marriage and kids etc etc neither of which are possible with me.

When I think of me at 20.

Being a rasta smoking weed in Dahab for 3 months while sporting questionable tie-dyed fisherman pants, half a decade before she was born.



Which seems like around 75 eternities ago.


I can only agree with her wholeheartedly.


Or with what's left of my stabbed, deflated, crushed heart anyway.

10 months, the second longest relationship of my life.

#absolutely.heartbroken

[Bettyboo]

^ good thinking = let her live and be happy for her.

[Edmond]

There was mention that I should probably be in a relationship with someone at the same stage of life (settled with a home and home life and kid), and age. .... Age... as in, dating a 45 year old.... a 45 year old woman. Jaysus can you imagine it. I'm not sure what turns my stomach more, the end of our love or the idea of dating a 45 year old.

[Mendip]

There was mention that I should probably be in a relationship with someone at the same stage of life

The Lego stage?

the idea of dating a 45 year old.

You wait a few years... then these youngsters become very appealing.

[Bettyboo]

Dilly's just over 45; he'd be an excellent wife - never a dull moment in the bedroom!

[Mendip]

^ To be honest, and no offense meant, but I was thinking about 45 year old females.

[Bettyboo]

^ clarity mate, come on! Also, the fear(?) of opening your horizons is maybe part of the problem? (although, the gardener relationship does suggest otherwise... ).

[NamPikToot]

There was mention that I should probably be in a relationship with someone at the same stage of life (settled with a home and home life and kid), and age. .... Age... as in, dating a 45 year old.... a 45 year old woman. Jaysus can you imagine it. I'm not sure what turns my stomach more, the end of our love or the idea of dating a 45 year old.

so are you now selecting from the new intake?

[Edmond]

The Lego stage?

I am thinking of trying to ease the insurmountable pain and feeling that life is over and not worth living with a 3,000 piece Lego Lamborghini Sian, as it happens.

[Mendip]

^ I could send you my daughter's 1000 piece all-white jigsaw puzzle if you like? In two weeks over Christmas she only managed the edge pieces.

That'll keep you busy.

[Edmond]

all-white

The colour of our fave nurse cosplay outfit with matching blindfold and fluffy handcuffs. Everything is a reminder.


Time to go out and drink 29 pints of vodka.


Later chaps/chapettes.

[Bettyboo]

For you, in your time of need, Edmond:

[Edmond]

^ Far too overdressed.




11am vodkas here I come! :/

[Mendip]

^ Look, I don't want to seem insensitive... but if you don't need that nurse costume any more...

You've got my address.

[nidhogg]

There was mention that I should probably be in a relationship with someone at the same stage of life (settled with a home and home life and kid), and age. .... Age... as in, dating a 45 year old.... a 45 year old woman. Jaysus can you imagine it. I'm not sure what turns my stomach more, the end of our love or the idea of dating a 45 year old.

Thailand has a plethora of gorgeous women in their late 30s early 40s. They are also generally more mature - and have a better idea how the "bits" fit together.

Frankly, dating a 19 year old is a bit "ick"

[Edmond]

^ she turned 20 a few months ago.

[nidhogg]

^ still "ick" my man...

[NamPikToot]

I am thinking of trying to ease the insurmountable pain and feeling that life is over and not worth living with a 3,000 piece Lego Lamborghini Sian, as it happens.

3696 pices and an age of 18 upwards so your new Mrs might struggle

[Bettyboo]

^ Exactly, never give up.

There's someone for everyone out there.

Not everyone, most folk maybe...