Emergency - Please Help

[The Gentleman Scamp]

scamp get out I have just finished a relationship with a Phily/no and once they think they have got you they become very domineering and being blackmailed into it is no way to start a marriage

I can see her turning out like the mum... It's taken me an hour to get online, she wanted me to sleep earlier and wouldn't let me plug in. Yup, she's gone from a timid, childish, reluctant escort girl to henpecker, and yes she's putting on loads of weight.

WTF???!!! Seems since we got engaged she's put on 6 or 7 kilos and started nagging me to do this, eat that, stop smoking, go to the gym. It's not that bad though, we had a lovely day today and she's just concerned about my health. She now says 'I love you' like she means it, which 4 months into the relationship is realistic.

[watterinja]

^ Aah, the joys of taking care of an aging ex lady-of-the-night. Stability & security are a sure part of the package. Looks like you're set for 10-to-life, Scamp.

[extras]

did anyone say 3:1 splitville in 4 months?

[barbaro]

did anyone say 3:1 splitville in 4 months?

Maybe he'll go for it.

Do the legal papers.


Get "official."


Then she'll be a pain....but worse....her family....

And he'll say....fug it.

And be back witha report.

Or maybe not.


But I think if he gets married he should get her out of "Lumpia Land" to ge away from her momma and eleben' brothas and sistas.

[stroller]

But I think if he gets married he should get her out of "Lumpia Land" to ge away from her momma and eleben' brothas and sistas.

So, looking after him would all be down to her alone? - that's not fair.

[bustak]

has she ever got off the phone?

well spotted.

TGS why IS she on the phone continuously?

she's an asian gal aint she?

You took the words right out of my mouth KW!!!!

GS those pictures are priceless!

I (along with some others) appreciate your honesty & bravery to show the vulnerable side of being human.

At the same time you need to be honest with yourself on why you keep on getting in to these crazy situations!

You also need to take some ownership over your life, you're not as much of a victim you claim to be. If you make crazy choices, SURPRISE! You'll have a crazy life!

she can get work overseas with her nursing degree.

Why doesn't she get a job as a nurse?

Best of luck to you & the lovely Sandra. PLEASE hold off on having kids!

[mrsquirrel]

6-7 kilos in three days

What the fuck has she been eating?

Lard sandwiches?

[The Gentleman Scamp]

^^ I'm only a victim of myself, but I would never survive in a 'normal' job in a 'normal' UK life.

I am not greedy enough to have a good life in the west and my attention span is too short for the mediocrity - however, I know from experience that I am not one to dump somebody if I am merely bored - I love a good challenge.

[watterinja]

A wonderful lesson in the progressive trolling technique. Well done GS - bullsh.itter supreme.

[mrsquirrel]

I love a good challenge.

So she is a challenge now?

[Jarvis]

I can see her turning out like the mum...

Why don't you shag her mum?

[Thetyim]

She now says 'I love you' like she means it, which 4 months into the relationship is realistic.

Never mind all that sentimental crap, does she still say "see-saws"

When she stops saying see-saws it is time for you to leave.

[The Gentleman Scamp]

She's in a semi mood because I didn't eat any of my breakfast.

It was a small mound of garlic rice which had been made the day before yesterday, and a cold, boiled egg which was very obviously off - I gagged upon peeling the shell. There was also some tomato type thing.

I had a glass of water instead.

[Jarvis]

I believe the food is shite over there

[The Gentleman Scamp]

How come this thread had 5 stars now it has 4???

DD, have I done something wrong?

[slimboyfat]

have I done something wrong?

thats a whole new thread, maybe two or three

[The Ghost Of The Moog]

She's in a semi mood because I didn't eat any of my breakfast.

It was a small mound of garlic rice which had been made the day before yesterday, and a cold, boiled egg which was very obviously off - I gagged upon peeling the shell. There was also some tomato type thing.

I had a glass of water instead.

Is this topic a serious one? As it seems to have dissolved into idle 'watch me' minutiae.

[The Gentleman Scamp]

^ Why is it that those who know me I real life always sit back and watch my threads until they get to long then have a little dig?

Lighten up Moog, I'm just keeping it alive, don't get all Blake 7 and superior on me..

[mrsquirrel]

If it's bound for death then let it die.

[The Gentleman Scamp]

^ Ok.

[Bruce]

I suggest you need a plan for the future, or else this is doomed to fizzle out eventually...
Options could include:

Get a job

Encourage her to also get a job (nursing?)

Get an apartment (already done)

Postpone marriage until YOU decide how, where, when and why YOU might get married.

Discuss with her. Ignore her mother. You two need to decide this by yourselves. Be quite blunt and open about your motives. Be totally HONEST and inists on same from her. If you're not honest now, it will never work.

If you do the above, you might have a chance. Otherwise, I'm not optimistic. But I hope I'm wrong. You never know...

[The Ghost Of The Moog]

Ok so, to summarise
Should he marry her?

Short answer - yes with an if
Long answer - no with a but

[kingwilly]

Discuss with her. Ignore her mother. You two need to decide this by yourselves.

doesnt work with asian gals. or at least not easily.

and inists on same from her. If you're not honest now, it will never work.

hahaha - you dont know asians real well do ya?>

[watterinja]

^ Honesty is the best policy in Asia - really.

[The Ghost Of The Moog]

I don't recall having seen any his n' hers nude photos yet, which surprises me given TGS' photographic ability.

Especially given that he can hold a camera and film himself - he could probably pull off the 'money shot' of holding the camera behind his bum, pointing forwards to show his dangling genitals, while crouching over her on all fours.