Emergency - Please Help

[stroller]

Hopefully it's the "let's take some pics of that bum, now!" position.

[William]

^I think that should have happened about a 100 posts ago!

[stroller]

Alternatively you can both go back to HK, where you started, and leave her there.

The voice of reason!
Just take her back and admit you made a mistake and don't want to fekk with her life any longer.
You have managed to win the heart of a prostitute, as you set out to do, but you don't actually have a perspective beyond this.

Sad but true.

Well, it's been a good story, but it should teach you not to mess with others' emotions, it's all part of growing up.

But don't forget those in memoriem bum pics before you split!

[The Gentleman]

Sandra replied: "Babe, I want to see Spiderman"

So she is superficial and doesn't give a shite about what you are saying to her and only worries about what she wants.

Selfish cow !

I expect when you're pleasuring her anally, she's thinking of Tobey Maguire.

I laughed !


Good ole Scamp, nice to hear life is still well with you
You are definately still entertaining!

[stroller]

You are definately still entertaining!

Pity you or one of your fellow mods banned him from TV, isn't it?

[burdon]

Nice thread.

Scamp, you could be a poster boy for the G.C.A. With this kind of attitude, I just know you will prove them all wrong and that you have a diamond!

The G.C.A you ask? Global Chump Alliance.

Sucker of the Year award is on its way to the Philipino ghetto right now. I do however, feel that I can relate to your state of mind. Some people think too deeply sometimes and inevitably end up rushing into disasterous relationships like yours because they think the only other option is to carry on living a fruitless exitstence.

Do whatever you want man. Just be aware that you will end up miserable again. The difference this time is that you will now have one direct dependant (until you have a kid) and an additional family to support.

Errrr, how about getting a job? Stupid thought I know.

[stroller]

...and an additional family to support.

That's what they like to think. They haven't quite realised yet how far the very thought is from any reality on whatever planet the Scamp has ever inhabited this is.

[attaboy]

Scampy vs. the MIL: Clash of the Titans, who is made of softer stone? There's a film for ya.

[burdon]

I don't agree. Scamp has already shown himself susceptable to emotional blackmail. Therefore I am certain that when her father is mysteriously taken down by illness and needs hospital treatment or the brother needs help with a debt, Scamp will un-happily oblige and dig into his family's coffers to help out.

G.C.A would be so proud.

[stroller]

^
You'd be surprised how fast he would find a reason, in his own tortured mind sort of way, to disengage Sandra and get on his way to greener pastures for new adventures, which will happen anyway, coincidentally at the time his visa will run out, I bet.

[burdon]

^ (let me try one of these little cheeky ^'s)

I actually agree. There is no way that Scamp will actually go through this rigmarole forever. He may get to the altar. He may say the vows. He may move in with her. He may even knock her up and stick around a year or two.

But I think stroller's option is far more likely. Scamp will simply diddley-do-one. Oh yes, he will justify this, and I would say that this is actually the correct thing to do.

You almost have to feel sorry for his fiance, but not really. Boo-hoo, another Asian chick gets ditched by her Western prince.

[stroller]

Two people's dreams from different cultures converging to be shattered at the shores of reality

[burdon]

Two people's dreams from different cultures converging to be shattered at the shores of reality

Edited by Jacob Burdon at 00:03

The dreams of two people from two different cultures that converge, only to be shattered on the rocky shores of reality.

Nice turn of phrase though.

[Little Chuchok]

^fcuk me.you're really good.

[burdon]

^ Just doing my job buddy. Just doing my job.

[The Gentleman]

You are definately still entertaining!

Pity you or one of your fellow mods banned him from TV, isn't it?

I did aspire to be a mod, but after 4 years over there, I think I might of missed my window. It seems that Stroll is still a troll.
Nice to see you here my German friend.

[Jarvis]

Nice to see you here my German friend

I'm confused

[mrsquirrel]

This thread is on for the glorious thousand mark easily.

Then TGS will sell it to some hollywood movie producer for a National Lampoons Script.

National Lampoons - Asian Vacation

[Thetyim]

I did aspire to be a mod, but after 4 years over there,

4 years ? Didn't you get bored

[The Gentleman Scamp]

Scampy dont marry her. I know you think you are doing the right thing byt you are not. You will only cause more problems.
Best thing to do is get out quick. To prevent horrible death at hands of outraged family I suggest you take the weekend away with Sandra and then split either in the middle of the night or after an engineered row. Alternatively you can both go back to HK, where you started, and leave her there. Moog will let you crash at his pad...

Blake, we had a discussion once about your own maritial circumstances after I enquired about finding a soulmate and all that jazz - your advice was, just find somebody who doesn't piss you off.

She does piss me off at times, but that could be my own problem, not hers, and I shouldn't take it out on her because she isn't my perfect ideal. As she has rightly stated, I should accept her for who she is as she does me.

I, (like you), don't want to lose my freedom - that's my selfish side, but it's not all about getting laid; I get more enjoyment from catching up with friends in Thailand than shagging about. Sandra is the first girl I've met who would be happy to devote her life to a child, even one that is not her own.

To take her back to HK and dump her back on Jaffe Road would be an awful thing to do. She told me time and time again back in HK that I could find somebody better and that she is happy to spend the rest of her life single but I took all that as merely self depreciation.

Take away the family a second, and I COULD quite happily continue with her, I like having somebody there for me and sometimes I like to surprise her by tidying her room or making her a CD, this stuff makes me feel good.

Her needs are as simple as mine are complicated... If I married her I would be expected to take care of her and any children we have, not the family, this isn't Thailand.

Also, if I returned her to HK then I have made her life worse, she probably wouldn't be able to return to the family home and whatever the outcome of this, I want her life to be better than it was before, I OWE HER THAT.

She's quite happy for me to have freedom as long as I am careful and she doesn't know about it. She has admitted she likes the idea of a half breed child as, like Thailand, they have a higher chance of sucess.

If this was in England and I had a girlfriend who looked like she does I would do anything to keep her, what with the choices on offer for a balding ex circus worker over there! Living in the UK would certainly improve our chances of sucess and I would appreciate her more but would I stay happy and content? I doubt it, so I would need to make enough money to take on editing jobs in other countries and THAT would suit me down to the ground:

Having a 'base' somewhere in a place where she would also be happy.
Working away sometimes and returning to the nest thus having my 'freedom to roam and socialise' AND being the family man. You Blake are one of a few people I know who have mastered this fortunate equilibrium and have the best of both worlds.

When I stop fretting, she's alright, we're alright - nothing special, we just get along and she leaves me alone when I'm on the net.

I don't think any ex girlfriend was more suitable for me, I don't think ANY woman is suitable for me because I only seem to be happy when I am living a lie or chasing some dream catch I fear I will lose.

The only thing I know for sure is that she is not pregnant - I also know that she may be my only chance of having a child someday and that I would be devastated if I reached the end of my life having never had one.

[mrsquirrel]

Quote: Originally Posted by The Gentleman I did aspire to be a mod, but after 4 years over there, 4 years ? Didn't you get bored

I think the Thai expression is

"Like dogs looking at airplanes"

[mrsquirrel]

If this was in England and I had a girlfriend who looked like she does I would do anything to keep her, what with the choices on offer for a balding ex circus worker over there!

It just wouldn't happen over there

She has admitted she likes the idea of a half breed child

What half Filipino half cock?

[Jarvis]

The only thing I know for sure is that she is not pregnant - I also know that she may be my only chance of having a child someday and that I would be devastated if I reached the end of my life having never had one

You better get her knocked up quick then Scamp

[The Gentleman Scamp]

^ What's the rush?

They are in such a hurry to do everything... She doesn't want a kid yet and the first (only) time I saw her cry was when she was 18 days late in HK. Getting hitched though would no doubt green light the preggers issue.

[mrsquirrel]

You must know scampy that women in Asia can't have kids over thirty. They are too old then and risk birth defects or at least that is what I was told by single women over thirty in Thailand.