You're pretty thick when it comes to women aren't you. (or most things really I suppose)
In the unlikely event that you meet a woman who meets your high standards who herself has such low standards as to accept you, be prepared for the fact that the agreed upon status quo could well change over time.
Like a Chinaman who wants to do business with you, she'll agree to anything in the beginning, only to gradually change the terms of the agreemnet over time.