Major Problems with my girlfriend and in need of some advice (not a bar girl)

**klongmaster** · 04-10-2008, 08:26 AM

Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp

Thing is though, unless you are as wise and as careful as I am - they all start out quite normal and only show their true colours when it's too late

Bobby'll be along shortly with the german word for 'self-deprecation'...you're up early Scampy seeing you were obviously well pissed last night...

re_fuse · 04-10-2008, 10:01 AM

Advice for next time .....In future rent an apartment in the girls name .... all utilities etc ...when it goes to shit you can pack one suit case whilst dogging flying plates and knives :-)

**britmaveric** · 04-10-2008, 11:05 AM

Pay the BIB some dosh and have the problem taken care of by them.

**Thormaturge** · 04-10-2008, 04:11 PM

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

Act dumb.

They're not acting.

**Johan** · 04-10-2008, 05:12 PM

What's her family's position on all this?

Don't they feel she's making the family loose face? If they are and they actually are HiSo I would have thought they would take care of the problem for you?!?

// Johan

**madjbs** · 04-10-2008, 05:28 PM

Farangs tend to call anyone not working in a rice field "HiSo"....

And anyone without dark brown skin is "half Chinese"

**English Noodles** · 04-10-2008, 07:43 PM

Originally Posted by jandajoy

And anyway I've seen the need to slap, or punch women regardless of where they come from or what they do. Maybe I'm just old fashioned that way.

You should be ashamed of yourself, does your future wife know you have a penchant for beating females?

Shame on you.

**mad_dog** · 04-10-2008, 08:58 PM

Originally Posted by DrAndy

have you ever done that MD?

Yep. The bitch didn't get anything of vaule to her but I lost about 2000 quids worth of clothes. Utter cu.n,t when Thai women are good they are very very good when they are bad they are very very bad.

**sunsetter** · 05-10-2008, 01:40 AM

Originally Posted by Nawty

Were the neighbours laughing...pissing their pants so to say...at the sight of a farang being chased by a lil ol chinese gal down the street ??

sounds great dosent it? and theres a picture somewhere, oh my id love to see that

**jandajoy** · 05-10-2008, 01:36 PM

Originally Posted by English Noodles

Originally Posted by jandajoy

And anyway I've
WHO NICKED THE NEVER seen the need to slap, or punch women regardless of where they come from or what they do. Maybe I'm just old fashioned that way.

You should be ashamed of yourself, does your future wife know you have a penchant for beating females?

Shame on you.

LOL,

I wonder who deleted the "never" from the post.

**English Noodles** · 05-10-2008, 02:14 PM

^Sure

**thehighlander959** · 05-10-2008, 03:11 PM

I think the OP needs to grow a pair of balls!! There are ways and means of dealing with issues like this, it seems that he doesn,t want to hurt her feelings to much.
Make her feel inadequate and she,ll go to much loss of face. Its genetically built in for them loss of face and their world collapses. Then its back to the family to repair the damage.

**mad_dog** · 05-10-2008, 07:57 PM

Originally Posted by thehighlander959

I think the OP needs to grow a pair of balls!! There are ways and means of dealing with issues like this, it seems that he doesn,t want to hurt her feelings to much.
Make her feel inadequate and she,ll go to much loss of face. Its genetically built in for them loss of face and their world collapses. Then its back to the family to repair the damage.

The extreme violence, moods swings and paranoia point to her being off her "face" on yaba.

re_fuse · 06-10-2008, 09:48 AM

You could tell her she's fat then sleep with her best friend :-)

**Gift** · 06-10-2008, 08:17 PM

I m Thai lady and i m so sorry about everything happened with you.
I dont know how can i help you just pray for you and wish everything
will be fine as soon.....You can come to meet police or lawer and tell them
about everything happen with you or come to embassy to help you I think officer at there can help you. I m sorry again about everyhing happen with you in Thailand and hope you will see good life as soon.....

Keep smile even have problem

( I alway do like thats )
Every problem will have the best way in finally.
Good luck for you

PS. sorry for my English.

**thehighlander959** · 06-10-2008, 09:39 PM

Hey Gift I dont think he needs prayers, a pair of ball might help as he is a bit of a cissy.
I think he needs to get a life there are lots of ways of avoiding this female, but I am not prone to telling attention seekers how to deal with minor issues or problems. He needs to tell her to go away in short sharp jerky movements ie.f*ck off and gimme peace. It should do the trick.

**Fabian** · 06-10-2008, 10:35 PM

I am sorry to say but the only solution is marriage.

**wichenburi** · 06-10-2008, 11:23 PM

Originally Posted by cmman

ok guys, sensible answers please! If you have pointless comments you may aswell keep them to yourself. I am genuinely after some solid advice.

Are there any lawyers on here that know?

Or has anyone had a similar experiance. This is not a bar girl that i can laugh at with the police, this is a Hi So bitch! Though I still cling to the hope that the law is the law, written in ink on paper. So it should therefore be the same for everyone.

Now I have been here for a long time and know the way things work, so please dont give me the old 'your stuffed mate, run away' Unless you have something to back it up with. cause those comments are generally pointless and truthless too.

Thanks again.

CMman

Have you considered Suicide as an option

**sunsetter** · 07-10-2008, 12:06 AM

twat^

**jizzybloke** · 07-10-2008, 12:10 AM

Did this guy ever come back after the first couple of posts?
I can't be bothered to look!

**rreexx** · 07-10-2008, 12:12 AM

Yeh........a lot harder to get rid of than get in the first place. One of the few places in the world that occurs.

**garye** · 07-10-2008, 02:42 AM

Those people suggesting that you leave are NOT having you on!!!
If she really has a rich family and you made her lose face(sia naa) in public you are in danger.
If you still want to live in Thailand ,move far away from where you now are!!! and in the future control yourself in public,you will always be the Falang and you will almost always be at fault(whether you really are or not).
Remember that old Kenny Rodgers song...".know when to hold em...know when to fold em....know when to walk away...know when to run!!!"

**dirtydog** · 07-10-2008, 02:47 AM

^Did Kenny have a thai bird then

**pascharay** · 07-10-2008, 02:54 AM

many years back a farang was driving on his scooter and gave a Thai driver the bird. Nothing happened for a year, until the Thai spotted the farang at a bar. he went home, got his gun, and shot the farang dead.

As for your questions;

Get the heck out of dodge, you idiot.

You can be arrested and it will cost you as much money as you have in the bank and more. A lawyer will cost you even more as he tries to buy off the family. You idiot.

The police will laugh in your face about an injunction. Where the hell you think you are you idiot?

Best to go to another country for a little while.

And when you come back don't ever go to Chiang Mai again

But it's your life.

**garye** · 07-10-2008, 02:59 AM

I believe so, back in the early years, her name was "Tawng Mot Laew"
She was the inspiration for this song

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