I tend to agree with you. Bar owner or TEFL'r? I am sure that would be a pretty hard decision for some of the whores in Thailand. I doubt any respectable Thai ladies outside the p4p scene would have anything to do with either of them.
No, unfortunately, my wife hasn't left me. I wish she would hurry up before I get too old to catch me a nice young looking bird.
My point being, why do bar owners think us customer give a squirt of piss about how their business is doing? I could care less. I drink where it's the cheapest, or where the quality of the bar and it's atmosphere justify a more expensive price for my drinks. It has nothing to do with who owns the gaff. Like I said previously, there are more than one moron waiting to replace them all and go broke just the same.
Fucked if you do, and fucked if you don't. Up to you handsome man.