Thread: Divorce (split)

Originally Posted by hallelujah

You wouldn't sign everything over to a bird at home

You get married in the UK and you sign away at least 50% of everything you own plus some future earning if you get divorced.

You marry here and buy a house in the wife's name and she gets the house if you get divorced.

Which one do you think you will lose more money on?

^ Have prenups become pase'?

^I dunno, never been married there

Originally Posted by NickA

Originally Posted by hallelujah

You wouldn't sign everything over to a bird at home

You get married in the UK and you sign away at least 50% of everything you own plus some future earning if you get divorced.

You marry here and buy a house in the wife's name and she gets the house if you get divorced.

She can get half of what you got during the marriage in Thailand too, no difference to Farangland. And in the case you bought a house she get that as a bonus.

Originally Posted by NickA

Originally Posted by hallelujah

You wouldn't sign everything over to a bird at home

You get married in the UK and you sign away at least 50% of everything you own plus some future earning if you get divorced.

You marry here and buy a house in the wife's name and she gets the house if you get divorced.

Which one do you think you will lose more money on?

Can't remember who said it...I'll never marry...if I love her I'll by her a house.

Originally Posted by NickA

You get married in the UK and you sign away at least 50% of everything you own plus some future earning if you get divorced.

So if your dad divorced your mum, she deserves nothing?

She should get her share of what was put in & that should be the end of it. Taking a chunk of your future earnings is wrong.

^What? for child support or just straight out future earnings?

Originally Posted by Lily

So if your dad divorced your mum, she deserves nothing?

Lilly the problem is like in Australia if you marry a nice girl and have a couple of cute kids and all is going alone nicely in your mind.
Then one day you come home from work and your key doesnt open the door. Your once lovely wife who is now a fat cow from sitting on her ass opens the curtian and tells you to go or she will call the police if you dont leave,and to drop the car at her friends place so she can pick it up later because she needs it for the kids.
You then think well I have a bit in the bank but when you check the account is empty or frozen.
Poor bloke keeps going work but at the end of each week most his wage is going to his kids and ex wife.
While the fat cow lives it up and now has a boyfriend staying most nights in your house that you spent 10 years building into a nice home and he is driving you car that was your pride and joy
After staying with friends or family you get enough money to buy a shit box car and rent a small shitty flat and that is about all you are going to afford for the next ten years untill your kids have growen up.
This is what happened to a mate of mine

Now tell me Lilly does any of this sound fair to you
Aussie guys are getting screwed left right and centre from the Aussie goverment.

Originally Posted by Rigger

Aussie guys are getting screwed left right and centre from the Aussie goverment.

Not just Aussies mate, my azz still hurts, and thit is 14 years ago, and the system has got worse since then.....

Originally Posted by Lily

^What? for child support or just straight out future earnings?

Child support only, nothing else & when the kid finishes school, that stops, too.

10k in what currency, Rigger?

Originally Posted by Lily

So if your dad divorced your mum, she deserves nothing?

Come on Lily, tell me where I said that

It was a comparison between getting divorced in Thailand and the UK, nothing else.

Lily,
the system in Aussie, of which I was a victim of, does nothing for the kids.
I left Aussie and paid SFA for 12 years, when I went back 2 years ago they whip my passport of me.
I settle for $12k in court.
I asked the kids what Mum bought them - SFA was the reply.
Over those 12 years I averaged about $5k for each daughter - to their accounts.
The Child Support would not recognise this as support, arguing that it was only for birthdays or Xmas.
Thank fuck I decided to run, at least I have a life here, and a daughter that worships the ground I walk on to play with every day.
BTW my two Aussie daughters, now 20 y.0 will be visiting me in Thailand at Xmas - a long wait.

Originally Posted by Rigger

Now tell me Lilly does any of this sound fair to you Aussie guys are getting screwed left right and centre from the Aussie goverment.

So, he got no share of their joint assets?

Originally Posted by Ban Saray

I asked the kids what Mum bought them - SFA was the reply.

She didn't feed them, clothe them, maintain a roof over their heads, pay school fees, give them spending money?

Who did?

Originally Posted by Ban Saray

Over those 12 years I averaged about $5k for each daughter - to their accounts.

How much do you think it costs to rear a child for twelve years?

A lot more than $5k.

I am divorced and have quite a few friends who are and all of them got 50% of the shared assets. The women you are speaking about must have had much better lawyers than I did.

Lily,
I know it costs more than 5K a year dear. what I said was the CSA refused to consider these deposits as part of the kids welfare.
She got the lot because I did not want it, and felt it was better of with my daughters.
Trouble was the ex's born again tribe moved in and she had SFA left after 3 years. Now am I to blame for this as well????
I wanted custody the courts said no, I said that if i cannot get custody or access I'm not paying.
(Suicide for seperated men in Austrlia - google it, not nice.)
That is why I am so glad I left the whole ratrace.

I wanted custody the courts said no, I said that if i cannot get custody or access I'm not paying.

and this is wot fcks me off abt teh whole system,

i'll happily look after my children and i dont need a cent in support, but a female can demend that right plus money!

Originally Posted by Rigger

Originally Posted by Lily

So if your dad divorced your mum, she deserves nothing?

Lilly the problem is like in Australia if you marry a nice girl and have a couple of cute kids and all is going alone nicely in your mind.
Then one day you come home from work and your key doesnt open the door. Your once lovely wife who is now a fat cow from sitting on her ass opens the curtian and tells you to go or she will call the police if you dont leave,and to drop the car at her friends place so she can pick it up later because she needs it for the kids.
You then think well I have a bit in the bank but when you check the account is empty or frozen.
Poor bloke keeps going work but at the end of each week most his wage is going to his kids and ex wife.
While the fat cow lives it up and now has a boyfriend staying most nights in your house that you spent 10 years building into a nice home and he is driving you car that was your pride and joy
After staying with friends or family you get enough money to buy a shit box car and rent a small shitty flat and that is about all you are going to afford for the next ten years untill your kids have growen up.
This is what happened to a mate of mine

Now tell me Lilly does any of this sound fair to you
Aussie guys are getting screwed left right and centre from the Aussie goverment.

Something like this, eh...?

Dad is on his way home a bit late from the office when he realises it's his daughter's birthday and he has not bought her a gift. So he stops at a toy store to buy his daughter a Barbie. Inside he sees a Barbie display and asks the salesgirl how much the Barbies are. The girl responds: "Which one?

We have:

Gymnasium Barbie: £19.95;

Volleyball Barbie: £19.95;

Shopping Barbie: £19.95;

Surfer Barbie: £19.95;

Disco Barbie: £19.95; and

Divorced Barbie: £299.95

Shocked, the man asks, "Why is Divorced Barbie £299.95 when all the other Barbies are £19.95?"

Exasperated, the girl responds: "Sir, Divorced Barbie comes with..... Ken's Car, Ken's House, Ken's Boat, Ken's furniture, Ken's jewellery Ken's money, Ken's computer, and Ken's best friend .....

BTW Lily, if my parents divorced and my Mum took nothing from the settlement she would still be richer than my Dad.

I've never been married so i'll never be divorced. I am getting to the age where people think about marriage but it seems like something you should approach with extreme caution.

Having been through the Oz Child Support System many years ago it favoured the female very heavily, now it seems to be evening up a little bit.

2 words:

Pre nup

Didn't Paul McCartney have a pre-nup with Heather Mills?
It isn't doing him much good.

If we are talking about the UK, a pre-nup is not enforceable under English law, a Judge may take it into consideration or he may ignore it altogether.

McCartney did not have a prenup, at least that's what I've been told.

I think he did. It was in the news just before they got married.