Is it such a big deal to call someone what they want to be called when it's precisely zero imposition or impact on your own life? Is it really any different from back in the day when that one teacher insisted you call them 'sir' when they were neither a Sir and were in fact a jumped-up cnut? Who really gives a fcuk. Or is there some other way this can be made into an assault on and affront to straight white men who are the victims of, well, everything (ask them, they'll tell you).
They's music is shite anyways.