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    scamming bitches

    I been married for 13 yrs, two gorgeous girls who I adore, and I thought at the least an honest wife, in 13 yrs I have been scammed by most people but never doughted my wife.

    Still don't, I have left money laying around and never had any cause for concern. Today I got given a new computer, so cleaned it up and at the same time cleaned my girls one out. Spotted some email account that was not mine so had a look around.

    It turns out she has been corresponding with a American, no real harm in that in fact she has told me about it.
    But when I look thru the emails, she has obviously been doing a Nigerian on the guy.
    She has never met him, just asking for money, which she doesn't really need actually. we are certainly not rich but have enough for our needs.

    I still find it hard to accept, no promises on her part, no infidelity just the temptation of easy money. the more I think about it its merely that, but scams and scamers piss me off. First response was outrage, but the more I think about it, she just thinks its a lark , getting sone poor cvnt to transfer dosh at her whim.
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    I personally would be more than just a bit unhappy about that. Not my place to comment on your private family matters, but were I to find myself in that situation, my wife and I would be having a serious talk.

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    WHOOOOEEEEE !!! CONNIVIN WOMEN !


    But seriously, she needs to be shown that people get hurt from this.

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    I'm with you on this Davis

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    Quote Originally Posted by Davis Knowlton
    I personally would be more than just a bit unhappy about that. Not my place to comment on your private family matters, but were I to find myself in that situation, my wife and I would be having a serious talk.
    Wot Davis said.

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    Young people often do stupid things ( I know I did ) without thinking of any moral issues or the consequenses of what they are doing. It's not until things blow up in their faces that the penny drops as to why it is wrong. Maturity comes with age and there's not a lot of it in the adverage teenager.

    I agree with Davis in as much as I would not be at all happy about it but would'nt be too hard on her until I had given her a warning about it, explained the consequences and possible dangers of what she was doing and got her to repay the money after fessing up to her amour. If she tried it on again ....well goodbye computer for starters, although with net surfing phones its impossible to police all the time.

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    i would say nothing, and then, in a while come to her, break down and confess that you have lost all your land and money to someone on the internet....

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    Ideally you would hope that there are not more email accounts around.

    Download MessenPass: Instant Messenger Password Recovery Tool, check it and see if there are. There are two other programs you can download as well of a similar nature; run them all and if you find anything ask her is she other email accounts. Her answer will tell you all you need to know. Also search the hard drives for the email account names; might spring up MSN etc logs show messages; after all no one would send money just from emails so I assume skype and msn have featured here. Dig around for sim cards as well (2 phone girl?)

    If she is good at it though, why not turn it into a cottage industry and go full on? If people are daft enough to send money to money to someone they do not know, then more fool them

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    i can assure you I am none to pleased and I am just cooling down for a response.

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    Jeez this is a weird one. I honestly wouldn't know what to say/do in the same circumstances.

    I certainly wouldn't expect anything like this, mind it sounds like you didn't either.

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    Foking hell Peter,

    That's a really fuked up story as I know your a straight up guy and will be quite devastated that your long term partner has decided that this course of action is good crack.

    Its foking dishonest at best and seriously corrupt , she is scamming, shows a persons true inner thoughts.

    Its foked up mate and you need to sort this shit out ASAP.

    Foking out of order in my OP.

    Cheers Peter.

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    The message is Ant, inn part there are plenty of pitfalls around, the last scam city episode featured a woman withe 5 doners. the are still plenty of fools around, still.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peterpan View Post

    i can assure you I am none to pleased and I am just cooling down for a response.

    If i was you I would be foking going nuts that she had done this. Best thing to do is fuk off for a while and cool down a bit to gather your thoughts.

    Ive fuked up by firing off at the hip in this sort of scenario so just chill the fuk out a bit and consider your response.

    cheers Peter.

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    Scam the cash mate.

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    If this was the western world and you had a real wife you'd probably be shocked, ashamed and too embarrassed to even post this on a forum.

    But.. seen as you're married to a third-worlder who's with you for $$$ you need to modify those standards a little.

    Give her a smacked bum, tell her farang is not only for money and he have feeling as well. And tell her some crap about buddah doesn't like scammers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peterpan View Post
    i can assure you I am none to pleased and I am just cooling down for a response.
    This is a wife of 13 years and two girls, not some gf. Leave it for a week or month to gel in your mind, don't address it in heat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peterpan View Post
    i can assure you I am none to pleased and I am just cooling down for a response.
    Hey it works both ways. My x's fucked up friend sent 6k to some Arab guy who claims to live in Australia. Now the guy wants money for a flight to the US.

    People who are dumb enough to send money to ppl they havnt met really do deserve what they get. I'm sorry but they just do

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    Terry, I have never let any woman get near source of funds and at the end of the day they think becasue they have a cvnt they have the power, the love I have my daughters far out weighs that, and at my time of life I can dispense with and have no need for the pussy.

    As long as they can hold a vacuum cleaner, job done,

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShrewedPunter View Post
    If this was the western world and you had a real wife you'd probably be shocked, ashamed and too embarrassed to even post this on a forum.

    But.. seen as you're married to a third-worlder who's with you for $$$ you need to modify those standards a little.

    Give her a smacked bum, tell her farang is not only for money and he have feeling as well. And tell her some crap about buddah doesn't like scammers.
    Ha. A real wife.

    You mean the women that can scam you through legal chanels ? And that makes them real wives ? My buddy is paying allimony and he didn't Even marry or have kids with the bitch.

    Real wives... Ha

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    Quote Originally Posted by socal View Post

    People who are dumb enough to send money to ppl they haven't met really do deserve what they get. I'm sorry but they just do

    You dumb fuk Socal, its not some dirty whore we are taking about but a wife of 13 years.

    Anyway, I do understand you don't get it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peterpan View Post
    Terry, I have never let any woman get near source of funds and at the end of the day they think becasue they have a cvnt they have the power, the love I have my daughters far out weighs that, and at my time of life I can dispense with and have no need for the pussy.

    As long as they can hold a vacuum cleaner, job done,
    Who needs pussy when you have a vacuum cleaner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by terry57 View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by peterpan View Post

    i can assure you I am none to pleased and I am just cooling down for a response.
    Ive fuked up by firing off at the hip in this sort of scenario so just chill the fuk out a bit and consider your response.

    cheers Peter.
    No idea am afraid, but terrys advice is the best there is - take your time before doing anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peterpan View Post

    Terry, I have never let any woman get near source of funds and at the end of the day they think because they have a cvnt they have the power, the love I have my daughters far out weighs that, and at my time of life I can dispense with and have no need for the pussy.

    As long as they can hold a vacuum cleaner, job done,


    Thank fuk for that Peter, enjoy your life and kick the problems into the gutter. Times running out innit.

    No time for this shit.

    Party on dude.

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    get in the game and demand a cut!

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    A man I know showed me some email from a woman he was sending money to thinking I would be impressed by his generosity. He had only corresponded with her, had a soft heart and she needed money, so he sent it. The photos of the woman, if it really was a she, were taken in the seventies and not recently as he thought. It was a painfully obvious scam. For the life of me I couldn't imagine why anyone would fall for this kind of thing.

    This man was also a great big asshole. It couldn't happen a more deserving soul. I thought at that time that I should get into the same business of scamming horrible men. If only I could make sure of the victims character first.....


    Peter Pan, your unhappiness with your spouse is reasonable, but much worse things can happen in a marriage. This didn't have anything to do with you and you wouldn't have known if you hadn't been peeping into her email. You and your wife can work this out.

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