Hello,
I think this would be the correct place to voice this question, apologies if it's not!
So, just as the title stipulates, 'do you think I could afford to be a father in LOS'. I appreciate that many decide to raise a family in Thailand and contribute to the many varied gene pool's we have which produce some really great looking kids; I too would like to become a father one day, but I'm not sure my income would allow me too.
Basically, my own circumstance are, I am in my 30s and still studying for an academic future within education, and whilst my g/f is 26, has expressed her desire to have children on more than one occasion. Now, it's not simply an answer that requires me to be told 'wait a few years', it's rather the prospect of will I ever be able to afford to raise children in a country such as Thailand once all the factors are considered.
It's a serious matter, one that shouldn't be taken to lightly, nor one that I wish to regret later in life If i decided not to have one. I have a fully paid for house, with no debts in LOS and as you know I am still studying, I do plan on working abroad from time to time whilst using my home as a base as this has been the plan from day one. My tgf works and I would say we are comfortable just as we are.
My main concern is education, and the well being for a potential kid. School's are not cheap - at least not the ones I would wish for them to attend - and health care with BUPA is close on 50,000 baht per year for a young child up until the age of 6.
If I factor in that once qualified, I would be then be the sole bread winner, then I very much doubt I could meet these requirements, whilst affording a comfortable life for myself and tgf that we have become used too. Perhaps I am over speculating this as most farang/Thai unions possibly survive on incomes much less than my expected one; nevertheless, I feel it is a valid point to raise and one which could ultimately affect my decision whether or not to start a family.
I think my options are quite simply, carry on as I am which is great, or lead a restricted lifestyle that requires constant financial commitment which I fear I cannot support sufficiently.
Maybe I should just buy a dog!