Thread: Waitress' tip denied; homophobic note left as gratuity

its the human soup retro, learn to deal with it.

We'll lose a few of the weaker folks to suicide

if they have been brought up to see themselves as perpetual victims then so be it.

the constant bleatings of outrage from the sensitivity squad, of whom you seem to be a member, will just weaken us all more.

sticks and stones and all that.

if someone offends you, you dont whinge and complain and run to the lawyers office, you take strength, respect and honour from their unwarranted insults and ultimately walk taller.

the whingers deservedly become even bigger targets, and it serves them fucking right.

I didn't see where that waitress asked for money at all. She went on line to express her opinion and people sided with her. Her opinion is just as valid as any of ours is of her. That people online sent money to make up for the tip the assholes didn't leave wasn't because she asked them to.

She didn't call a lawyer, either.

Then the bullied will come back with a rifle and gun down the bully. It happens all the time but its the human soup, Tax. God planned it all.


As for tips being necessary, that's silly. Do you get such bad service in Asia where most places don't expect tips? How about at Sizzler. The tip is silly anyways. JMO

Originally Posted by Davis Knowlton

I think fags are disgusting, and avoid them when possible.

Originally Posted by Davis Knowlton

The boy fags don't dress like girls like in Thailand.

bakla? billyboys? tomboys? there are loads of 'fags' in the fil's. I see it as much of a muchness with thailand that way.

Originally Posted by misskit

I didn't see where that waitress asked for money at all

from the opening post

Originally Posted by Mid

a Pay Pal account Morales set up

if setting up a paypal isnt asking for money why else do it ?

Originally Posted by blue

Originally Posted by misskit

I didn't see where that waitress asked for money at all

from the opening post

Originally Posted by Mid

a Pay Pal account Morales set up

if setting up a paypal isnt asking for money why else do it ?

You didn't write the whole sentence, did you now?

She set up an account because they asked her to.

And why shouldn't she?


You want to make out that the customers were right in expressing their disgust and keeping their money in their pockets in this situation, but the waitress doesn't have any right to put money in hers?

Originally Posted by misskit

I didn't see where that waitress asked for money at all.

Originally Posted by misskit

That people online sent money to make up for the tip the assholes didn't leave wasn't because she asked them to.

Sorry Misskit - that's untrue.

In fact, a Pay Pal account Morales set up at the behest of readers has already raised thousands of dollars
she plans to donate part of the money to the Wounded Warrior program for combat veterans in need.
Waitress' tip denied; homophobic note left as gratuity - National Religion in the News | Examiner.com

Here are some quotes from this woman:

I am THOROUGHLY offended mad pissed off and hurt...Keep your damn mouth shut and pray we never cross paths again...


She was in the marines, killing people, people wanting to kill her, but she feels 'thoroughly offended', something wrong there I'm afraid.

Her violent intent and threat is clear...

Dayna Morales Thanks everyone for your support - it took very fiber of my being not to spit in their food and say something. (Not gonna lie if kids weren't there it would of been a totally different story)
2,202 · November 13 at 6:37pm via mobile

sounds a lovely lass.

more wonderful comments here.

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Originally Posted by sabang

Originally Posted by Davis Knowlton

I think fags are disgusting, and avoid them when possible.

Originally Posted by Davis Knowlton

The boy fags don't dress like girls like in Thailand.

bakla? billyboys? tomboys? there are loads of 'fags' in the fil's. I see it as much of a muchness with thailand that way.

See my post #37. I said there are fags here just like anywhere else. I also said the boys don't dress up like girls to the degree they do in Thailand. They are also not as accepted here as in Thailand. If you disagree with that, you must be seeing a different Philippines than I am.

I imagine there are fag bars here, as well as bars where boys dress as girls - they simply aren't on my circuit.

The girl actually said that she would still serve the family without a problem if they came back.

^Retro, she's an aggressive alpha male sort; it's very clear, stop trying to defend her. She was slighted, wrongly, but her reaction was pathetic and threatening. Oh yeah, she made loads of profit out of the situation too, and is rather enjoying the limelight.

Also, please don't forget that only one side of the story has been written here. I'd like to hear the other side.

^^I think Sabang was using some Aussie sarcasm there, mate... Not kindly either...

Originally Posted by Bettyboo

Originally Posted by misskit

I didn't see where that waitress asked for money at all.

Originally Posted by misskit

That people online sent money to make up for the tip the assholes didn't leave wasn't because she asked them to.

Sorry Misskit - that's untrue.

In fact, a Pay Pal account Morales set up at the behest of readers has already raised thousands of dollars

Guess, "at the behest of readers" means something different to you and me.

Originally Posted by misskit

Guess, "at the behest of readers" means something different to you and me.

Clearly.

If I was making a moral point and some people offered to send me money I'd certainly say NO!

Gosh the money bothers so many of the poor posters.

She is a waitress. She needs all the money she can get. That is why it is so bad for those people not to leave a tip.

She's a former Marine and a Fox News fan. She believes Benghazi was the worst thing to happen in US history. That ought to get a few of you on board.


And she thinks Obama is a Kenyan Communist.

That is why it is so bad for those people not to leave a tip.

tipping is always optional.

^^ Well, that does it. I'm not defending her anymore!

^ Don't know where you are from, Tax, but waitress in the USA are paid a fraction of minimum wage. Their pay comes from tips. It is not optional.

Making a moral point, and standing to your ideals is very different from making a large financial profit and threatening a family who wrote a polite note to you and have different values.

As far as the comment about at least she didn't get a lawyer, after reading the details of this incident, her Facebook comments, etc, there probably is a legal case her...

I suggest Lesbian and Gay waitstaff observe their customers more closely to get ready for a shock.

Potential signs of problem customers:

1) They say a prayer at the table and dress 1950's.



2) They wear hats like these...




3) Wear shirts like these..



4) And have one of these

^^ What was the threat from this alpha males sort of waitress to the family?

I think to not pay a tip because you don't like someone is fine.

To write what you don't like about them on the bill is a bit gratuitous (intended).

No need for it. Bit pious really.

Originally Posted by Mid

A waitress in New Jersey who previously served in the Marines received an offensive note from a family who denied her a tip because of her "gay lifestyle." Now, she is speaking out against those very people whose freedom she once defended.

She defended peoples freedom and right to choose (in the Army) , She should accept those choices , even if She disagrees with them .
Or is She saying that She joined the army in order to force people to accept her sexuality?

Don't know where you are from, Tax, but waitress in the USA are paid a fraction of minimum wage. Their pay comes from tips. It is not optional.

im from the uk, optional 10% tips for good service in a restaurant.

in the usa tips are expected, but there is no legal requirement to pay a tip, so therefore they are optional and not compulsory. businesses including restaurants with less than a $500k pa turnover can pay a lower minimum wage, and those who take jobs in those restaurants expect to make up their wages by tips for good service.

only a fool would tip for rude or poor service.