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    Where is the line - or is there one?

    This thread
    https://teakdoor.com/world-news/48982...-attacked.html (Afghan 'anti-rape' women attacked)
    got me to thinkn' a bit.


    Ok, so I don't think it acceptable to rape some bird - wife or not. But if a bloke is married and going in to the marriage the couple have sex regular - like every day. If after they are married and the wife's sex drive dries up what are acceptable options for the bloke?

    Is the bloke supposed to go without, and only wank. Or would it at some point become acceptable for the bloke to get some action somewhere else?

    What if the wife's sex drive does not dry up completely - but goes from sex everyday to once/twice a week?

    At what point does it become acceptable for the bloke to go elsewhere for some action? Or is the only acceptable option (if sex is important enough to the bloke) to get a divorce?

    What if the shoe is on the other foot? Let's say the bloke has some equipment problems. At what stage would it be, or is it ever acceptable, for the bird to spend some time in another nest?

    How much sex must one go without before it is OK for them to seek other sources?

    Does the other partner have to be inlvolved in determining where the line is?


    On a side note:
    Is it just a coincidence that marriage ends in “I age”?
    "Religion is an insult to human dignity. With or without it, you'd have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, it takes religion" - Steven Weinberg

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    For better or worse?

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    How about the shoe being on the other foot!

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    Quote Originally Posted by chassamui View Post
    For better or worse?
    You're not implying the bird should just suck it up and take it (when ever/ how ever/ where ever the bloke wants) for better or for worse are you?

    Or is it only the bloke that is stuck with the better or worse bit?

    And what if a couple didn't have a traditional christian wedding in which such vows are exchanged?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs
    How much sex must one go without before it is OK for them to seek other sources?
    I have given this some thought, I think a few hours is long enough before you go and find a small wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs
    What if the wife's sex drive does not dry up completely - but goes from sex everyday to once/twice a week?
    ummm, hello

    welcome to the real world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwilly View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs
    What if the wife's sex drive does not dry up completely - but goes from sex everyday to once/twice a week?
    ummm, hello

    welcome to the real world.
    Crikey I hope I never have to live in the real world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs View Post
    This thread
    https://teakdoor.com/world-news/48982...-attacked.html (Afghan 'anti-rape' women attacked)
    got me to thinkn' a bit.


    Ok, so I don't think it acceptable to rape some bird - wife or not. But if a bloke is married and going in to the marriage the couple have sex regular - like every day. If after they are married and the wife's sex drive dries up what are acceptable options for the bloke?

    Is the bloke supposed to go without, and only wank. Or would it at some point become acceptable for the bloke to get some action somewhere else?

    What if the wife's sex drive does not dry up completely - but goes from sex everyday to once/twice a week?

    At what point does it become acceptable for the bloke to go elsewhere for some action? Or is the only acceptable option (if sex is important enough to the bloke) to get a divorce?

    What if the shoe is on the other foot? Let's say the bloke has some equipment problems. At what stage would it be, or is it ever acceptable, for the bird to spend some time in another nest?

    How much sex must one go without before it is OK for them to seek other sources?

    Does the other partner have to be inlvolved in determining where the line is?


    On a side note:
    Is it just a coincidence that marriage ends in “I age”?
    Are you serious? First of all, what your are talking about doesn't really compare to what Muslim woman have to go through. These women are not allowed to ever say 'NO.' They are not allowed to leave the house without permission. I don't know about where you come from or what type of relationship you are in, but this is downright ridiculous.

    What you are asking depends a lot on the the people involved. Every person is different, and has different expectations on what is acceptable and what the lines are in a marriage. I think the sacredness has gone out of marriage, and many don't take it that serious. On the other hand, I know so many people that are unhappy in marriages. It really isn't all it is cracked up to be in my opinion. So... I guess you would have to ask your significant other about these things because it is quite personal.

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    ^Bloody women, next they will want equal rights and stuff

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtydog
    a small wife.
    Is 5'2" small enough?

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    Bugs, is sex the most important thing for you in a relationship? More important than sharing, companionship, love, having a family and raising that family, give and take, understanding, loyalty?

    If the answer is 'yes', then don't get married. It's that simple. All marriages have their ups & downs and at certain times, due to stress, financial/employment problems, young children, tiredness, you-name-it, the libido of either partner can peak or trough. Sometimes, the difference in sex drive between partners is enough to cause serious problems. That's when committed couples who share the above feelings for each other talk about it and both may try to make the effort to reach an acceptable compromise (assuming woman's libido is lower, she may make the effort to wear sexy undies and get her mother to look after the kids a couple of times a week; the man may decide to stop 'hassling' her, but make her feel loved & wanted - maybe even help out a bit). If the first question is 'how soon can I get a mia noi or get myself down the go-go bars', before even talking it out, you shouldn't be in that relationship, never mind married.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phuketbound View Post
    Are you serious? First of all, what your are talking about doesn't really compare to what Muslim woman have to go through. These women are not allowed to ever say 'NO.' They are not allowed to leave the house without permission. I don't know about where you come from or what type of relationship you are in, but this is downright ridiculous.
    Was not attempting to make a direct comparison to what is going on in Afganistan - sorry if it came off that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phuketbound
    These women are not allowed to ever say 'NO.' They are not allowed to leave the house without permission. I don't know about where you come from or what type of relationship you are in, but this is downright ridiculous.
    What do you mean "Ridiculous" For the love of Allah, it is directly ordered in the Qua ran thats the way it will be, For shit sakes woman whats the matter with ye.

    Quote Originally Posted by November Rain
    having a family and raising that family, give and take, understanding, loyalty
    But Rainy Darlin, without no fucking there will be no family to raise.

    But being that they are Muzzies, they can have up to 4 wives if they can support them,, so damn sure all 4 will not say no at the same time.
    1- will cause you much unrest and will become lonesome.
    2- will cause you unrest thru their teaming up again you
    3- is a better number, but 2 will side again the other and that will give you much grief
    4- is a very good number and you will always be happy with that number as 1 will always be in consent with what you want and need.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwilly View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs
    What if the wife's sex drive does not dry up completely - but goes from sex everyday to once/twice a week?
    ummm, hello

    welcome to the real world.
    Yep, it's called marriage...

    I thought Muzzies could have a harem of many women, so what's the problem???

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    Bugger, I looked at this thread because I thought it refered to the yellow line in the Eden club. What a let down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs
    Quote: Originally Posted by chassamui For better or worse?
    Sorry Bugs i forgot the thought it was obvious. Obviously not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phuketbound
    First of all, what your are talking about doesn't really compare to what Muslim woman have to go through. These women are not allowed to ever say 'NO.' They are not allowed to leave the house without permission.
    KW's wife is a Muslim woman and I think she should be allowed to tell munkeyrectum to go and have a wank - but how does he manage the "her leaving the house" bit I wonder ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by baldrick View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by phuketbound
    First of all, what your are talking about doesn't really compare to what Muslim woman have to go through. These women are not allowed to ever say 'NO.' They are not allowed to leave the house without permission.
    KW's wife is a Muslim woman and I think she should be allowed to tell munkeyrectum to go and have a wank - but how does he manage the "her leaving the house" bit I wonder ?
    exactly, in some ways she is more western than a western woman.

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    ^ She makes you clean the house, then?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jet Gorgon
    ^ She makes you clean the house, then?
    we have a maid for that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgang
    But Rainy Darlin, without no fucking there will be no family to raise.
    My mistake. I didn't realise we were talking about no fucking, I thought that the problem was


    Quote Originally Posted by Bugs
    What if the wife's sex drive does not dry up completely - but goes from sex everyday to once/twice a week?
    How many times a week does it take in order to procreate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kingwilly View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by baldrick View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by phuketbound
    First of all, what your are talking about doesn't really compare to what Muslim woman have to go through. These women are not allowed to ever say 'NO.' They are not allowed to leave the house without permission.
    KW's wife is a Muslim woman and I think she should be allowed to tell munkeyrectum to go and have a wank - but how does he manage the "her leaving the house" bit I wonder ?
    exactly, in some ways she is more western than a western woman.
    How so?

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    I really don't get the OP. Are you married? Are you thinking of getting married? Have you asked your significant other about these things? What someone else thinks, may be totally different from what you or your wife think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by November Rain
    How many times a week does it take in order to procreate?
    Depending if you are shooting live rounds or blanks.
    I ain't really to sure, but it seemed when I was home if I didn't change skivies daily or even threw em under the bed, my wife was knocked up.
    But if shooting blanks, then I guess it would take the mailman just a few times.

    About 1955 I was in a chinese market close to our house in Sacramento and my daughter was just walking good, and the chink says my my your child sure look like you, So I told him that she should, that the mailman is my cousin... thick fucker says,, OH that Very nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgang
    About 1955 I was in a chinese market close to our house in Sacramento and my daughter was just walking good, and the chink says my my your child sure look like you, So I told him that she should, that the mailman is my cousin... thick fucker says,, OH that Very nice.
    ya funny bastard

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