Thinking of someone else

[BigRed]

How long are you with a partner before you start fantasizing about someone else while having sex? I'm extremely happy with my wife, but still think about someone else while doing it, not that I fancy them more than my missus or anything, but I think its to do with being able to step back and imagine it, whereas in real life you don't really see anything.

[nedwalk]

no, i fantasize about my wife when i,m haveing sex with someone else

[DJ Pat]

My mind plays tricks on me on purpose and I get a visual of a huge hairy obese male arse

[obsidian]

^ cover the mirror with a sheet or tell him to shave.

[baldrick]

fantasizing about someone else while having sex

is this just a fancy wank ?

[jandajoy]

I think I'd start looking for a new wife. Dodgy territory this, especially if mid-fantasy you start coming out with names!

[barbaro]

no fantazing, just f*ckin'

We need not get deep. That is what porn on the laptop is for.

[jandajoy]

start fantasizing about someone else

I prefer deep.

[Loy Toy]

I think about something like kingwilly's avatar when I'm on the job.
Does wonders for my staying power and helps to hold off the inevitable.
On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

[Fast Eddie]

On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

I take it she reads the forum then?

[dirtydog]

Shouldn't the more important question be who is your wife or girlfriend thinking of during sex?

[Loy Toy]

On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

I take it she reads the forum then?

She doesn't FE but I have no problem about telling her that I am thinking about her. Probably be happy if she new I have publically announced my feelings.

I would suggest you read the thread topic with A>D>R.

[jandajoy]

^^Naaaa Who cares?

[Loy Toy]

I think Big Red has created a good thread which can be split in a number of directions.

I would never be jealous if my wife admitted to liking another male because of his looks. (say a movie star)
I also have no problem about commenting how beautiful I thought a woman was and to my wife. I feel we all appreciate the beauty of a woman but that doesn't mean we wish to sleep with that person.

Sure, I believe we all fantasize about other woman and I believe this is normal human nature. Woman most probably do the same but that doesn't mean they would wash their socks. I fantasized about my wife and before we became partners and whilst the sexual spark is not the same as the first visits the love is stronger than ever.

I frequent the bars of Pattaya regularly and really enjoy having a crack with the girls and sometimes a bit of a grope. Buy them a few drinks and a tip when I'm leaving and thats it.

I also am proud my wife knows who I am but also knows that I have better at home so I never get questioned. Her confidence in herself and in me is something I treasure.

I finally think fantasizing about someone else during the act of sex is fairly common for both sexes and like masturbation some people are too shy to admit it.

[buriramboy]

When having sex with the wife, i'm too busy concentrating on what i'm doing to think of anyone else, however if i wake up in the morning with a woody and she's not there and i decide to crack one of, i think all sorts of dirty thoughts that don't involve her. They normally involve this girl though........

[Dalton]

Does wanking count ???

[kingwilly]

When having sex with the wife, i'm too busy concentrating on what i'm doing to think of anyone else, however if i wake up in the morning with a woody and she's not there and i decide to crack one of, i think all sorts of dirty thoughts that don't involve her. They normally involve this girl though........

I'd more or less go with this version.

In fact the few times I have let my mind stray to thoughts of another gal i suddenly find myself losing stiffness, I just cannot do it. I've always been like that, can only think about the gal I'm with ....

anything else just interferes with the process..

[Dalton]

Shouldn't the more important question be who is your wife or girlfriend thinking of during sex?

Isn't that to take it a bit to far....

[Roc]

I think about my misses and three other women!

[Itchy]

I've always said..... It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, so long as you eat at home.