Thread: Thinking of someone else

Originally Posted by Fast Eddie

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

I take it she reads the forum then?

She doesn't FE but I have no problem about telling her that I am thinking about her. Probably be happy if she new I have publically announced my feelings.

I would suggest you read the thread topic with A>D>R.

^^Naaaa Who cares?

I think Big Red has created a good thread which can be split in a number of directions.

I would never be jealous if my wife admitted to liking another male because of his looks. (say a movie star)
I also have no problem about commenting how beautiful I thought a woman was and to my wife. I feel we all appreciate the beauty of a woman but that doesn't mean we wish to sleep with that person.

Sure, I believe we all fantasize about other woman and I believe this is normal human nature. Woman most probably do the same but that doesn't mean they would wash their socks. I fantasized about my wife and before we became partners and whilst the sexual spark is not the same as the first visits the love is stronger than ever.

I frequent the bars of Pattaya regularly and really enjoy having a crack with the girls and sometimes a bit of a grope. Buy them a few drinks and a tip when I'm leaving and thats it.

I also am proud my wife knows who I am but also knows that I have better at home so I never get questioned. Her confidence in herself and in me is something I treasure.

I finally think fantasizing about someone else during the act of sex is fairly common for both sexes and like masturbation some people are too shy to admit it.

When having sex with the wife, i'm too busy concentrating on what i'm doing to think of anyone else, however if i wake up in the morning with a woody and she's not there and i decide to crack one of, i think all sorts of dirty thoughts that don't involve her. They normally involve this girl though........

Does wanking count ???

Originally Posted by buriramboy

When having sex with the wife, i'm too busy concentrating on what i'm doing to think of anyone else, however if i wake up in the morning with a woody and she's not there and i decide to crack one of, i think all sorts of dirty thoughts that don't involve her. They normally involve this girl though........

I'd more or less go with this version.

In fact the few times I have let my mind stray to thoughts of another gal i suddenly find myself losing stiffness, I just cannot do it. I've always been like that, can only think about the gal I'm with ....

anything else just interferes with the process..

Originally Posted by dirtydog

Shouldn't the more important question be who is your wife or girlfriend thinking of during sex?

Isn't that to take it a bit to far....

I think about my misses and three other women!

I've always said..... It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, so long as you eat at home.