The Anger Thread

[obsidian]

fookin pissed at a ajarn mutha fooker that quits the board in hysterical and very public way and then shows back up like nothin happened only to quit again in a week. muther fookers who quit and return should be goddamned banned...whiney noassed invertebrate fookin cock suckers! ban'nem and piss on em, i say.

[hillbilly]

fookin pissed

No doubt you are, now please play nicely with the others...

[Ice Maiden]

Thats all I need, time. I'll be laughing about this later!

I'll probably have a good cry (or two) and then move on. I've got to! I'll save my wall for someone else. I'll save my tears for someone else too because I really cant waste my time feeling upset about this. I'm young I should be having fun.

Not being hurt ! This isn't the first time I've been upset about the same man maybe it's better for me after all.

Good post Danbo.

That's where you got it wrong, time is your ennemy. How many women spend all their "good" years waiting for the right guy or to resolve those "past" failures with men only to end up alone herding cats ? it doesn't work that way. Shagging and partying is the answer. I understand it's hard though, above all in some certain environment. It's either that or going on a trip to meet new people. Maybe that's what you need ? Full Moon Party here you go.

It isn't the answer for me!

I was going to try one more time to talk this over but why should I? Anyway I'm feeling soooo much better

[Butterfly]

Would you suggest shaggin as many men as possible, if your sista had started this thread?

*no offense intended just curious to find out*

I couldn't speak for her if I had one, but if she was not 10, but a burgeoning teenager (17 and older) then yes I would have the same advice. It's about exploring your limit and learning from them. I am not advocating her to go into a gang bang or do a 3 some, just to go out and find some nice good looking guys to have a good time with, no strings attached. It's that simple.

[Wally Dorian Raffles]

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling down, ice, but if you

really liked him

, then this rough ride you are having will make you a better person eventually, and you will come through this knowing yourself a lot better - experiencing true feelings for somebody is quite a special thing...

For now, spend lots of time with your friends, and try to keep smiling!

[Ice Maiden]

I liked him loads <sigh>

But I got to move on and I am doing.

[obsidian]

what did you like about him, ice maiden (if you dont mind a question or two)?

[Butterfly]

I liked him loads <sigh>

But I got to move on and I am doing.

He wasn't Thai by any chance ? because if he was, deceiving women is the standard for Thai men here. Just wanted to let you know

[Ice Maiden]

I liked him loads <sigh>

But I got to move on and I am doing.

He wasn't Thai by any chance ? because if he was, deceiving women is the standard for Thai men here. Just wanted to let you know

Nope he wasn't Thai, I'm not attracted to Asians.

Obsidian - What didn't I like about him? Apart from the odd time he got depressed, I felt helpless when he went through those times. I liked all his traits.

[obsidian]

how long have you known him? what do you think brings the two of you back into each others lives?

[Ice Maiden]

I dont really want to talk about this mate.

I must forget all about him. Just keep the good memory.

[obsidian]

cool. hang in.

[Ice Maiden]

I'm hanging in here mate. No worries, many other men will break my heart so I shouldn't worry about one of the many.

[obsidian]

wish i could find a really obsessional reationship. here its sex, which is great but the thais arent neurotic enough nor have good enough english skills (in general) to really get psychologically wrapped around each other. i miss it.

[hillbilly]

I'm hanging in here mate. No worries, many other men will break my heart so I shouldn't worry about one of the many.

Please do not pay attention to obsidian. The poster is pulling your heart strings and trying to bait the hook.

Which in this case shows he is a punk...

[Ice Maiden]

I'm really not that intrested.

Well I sent a final message so now I can walk away with the knowledge I did try towards the end without just letting a lovely man like that walk out of my life

[obsidian]

i stand by my comment. no heart strings or hook. the power dynamic is completely different in relationships here. its less about thinking and more about being taken care of. think you on to my ka-ka dont ya moo?

[davethailand]

How long did you know eachother?

[Bluecat]

How long did you know eachother?

Long enough for him to know her.

[Ice Maiden]

Beautiful.

[davethailand]

Hence his departure you mean BC?

[Ice Maiden]

That is what he meant I believe. So cute of him to say.

[Bluecat]

Hence his departure you mean BC?

She should know better than us, I guess, she wrote it in her first posting:

Walk in my life then right back out, thats what they always do

[klongmaster]

thats just God testing me I think.

Normally you seem to have a level-headed approach to things...

but this is not a good track for you to follow...

"God" is just a covenient crutch to rely on when the bad times come...

if you really believe god is real, aren't you being just a little conceited in thinking he is testing you, specially you from the billions of people in the world...

God and alcohol are both the same...used by people to help them through the hard times...

in reality good friends are better than both

[Ice Maiden]

I wasn't meaning I know more than anyone else BlueCat.

It is common for teenagers to say they know it all but I'm not one of those, that is stereotypical anyway.