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    Being single.

    Well, it has now been close to 4 month with me and the missus being on and off, I have to say that I really enjoy the off days When she's back things gets complicated and none of us seems to have a good time, guess we are trying to hard not to argue.
    The work is the same, less stressfull when she's not here, but still it feels like something is missing, and even if I think I enjoy it, then it's a lie, I do miss her strangely enough.
    Doring the last 4 month certain parts of my body has grown quite large.



    I have been doing a lot of thinking and have decided to go abroad and work for 6 month to give the relationship a chance and to make some money (basicly the same thing) My plan is to leave early in April and return in November, that should give us both some time to think about the future.

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    enjoy the new broad.

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    Where do you live now?... you wouldn't get an arm like that if you were single in Pattaya....

    Good luck with your plans...

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    Quote Originally Posted by obsidian
    enjoy the new broad.



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    Dalts, firstly an on again off again relationship is not being single. Ask Scampy


    Secondly, how is going to work away going to save your relationship? Take it from someone that's got the sodding t-shirt, working away when you have a rocky relationship does not make it better - it's signing the relationship's death warrant. Of course, if that's what you actually want, then it'll work

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    Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder. I hope it does for you Mr Dalton.

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    Quote Originally Posted by November Rain
    Secondly, how is going to work away going to save your relationship? Take it from someone that's got the sodding t-shirt, working away when you have a rocky relationship does not make it better - it's signing the relationship's death warrant. Of course, if that's what you actually want, then it'll work
    Tight finances after the bird-flu is the main reason that things between us is going south, and the progress with the fish-farm is to slow, due to capital. I'm not an easy man to be around when I have nothing to do, so I might as well take some work for a while, until it's back on track. If she's still there when I come back, then ok, if not that's also ok. I just know that I need a breake from this place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dalton View Post
    The work is the same, less stressfull when she's not here,
    When she's not here, it can be stressful and sometimes I need her but nothing I can do about it. She's just not here. The stress remains or even gets worse.
    When she's here, it can also be stressful but if I need her she's here. And if she's part of the stress, I still can be alone. Ask her to leave me alone. I have a choice. Less stressful.
    I hope she will not read this...
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    You must do what you feel is right for you. If you really miss her, and you stay single, it might just work. Then again She may find something else while you are away. Somtimes absence makes the heart grow fonder, sometimes it makes a small crack an unbreachable divide. You must think carefully but what ever you decide to do, look after yourself and come back in one piece.

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    ^^ That pretty much sums it up, dosent make sense at all....Life, I think it's called..

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    I closed the door on Sandra today - finally, I'd had enough of her msn rants.

    She's not used to me hanging up on her - a few hours later I had an sms supposedly written by her brother informing me she was in hospital with dengue fever but it's now progressed into typhoid.
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    Dalts: if it's a question you want to answer, what will you be doing?...I mean what kind of work?..

    you're lucky to be able to step back into something...many can't...

    good luck mate and don't drop the TD just because you're not domiciled here...

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    It happens sometimes yeah.. that's what it's called "Life", agree.

    Shit happens and it will end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by klongmaster
    good luck mate and don't drop the TD just because you're not domiciled here...
    Dont worry, you dont get rid of me that easy.. I'll have plenty of time to troll TD while working..

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
    I closed the door on Sandra today - finally
    Somehow I find that hard to believe...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dalton View Post
    Life, I think it's called..
    "If I had to live my life again, I would make the same mistakes, only sooner..."

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    how can a thread be this gay while talking about a heterosexual relationship?

    reads like a cmn thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by obsidian
    reads like a cmn thread.
    Dont you ever insult me like that again...

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    Dalton, Why not come and take my wife to your place for a while.
    If you like her you can keep her, then we will both be happy!.

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    Please, just don't bring her back.

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    Mate, sometimes you just got to let it all go, be on your own for a decent period of time and then consider that its best for all to just get another GF.

    The hardest part is letting it all go, to hang in there and be unhappy is a total waste of foking energy and life.

    The way you write tells me that you should flick her once and for all.

    cheers.

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    Good luck whatever you choose mate!

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    Quote Originally Posted by November Rain
    Take it from someone that's got the sodding t-shirt, working away when you have a rocky relationship does not make it better - it's signing the relationship's death warrant.
    Have to agree with NR - got the T shirt as well

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    Godd luck, Dalts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
    I closed the door on Sandra today
    for how long?

    did u send her more money ?

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