There is something that the forum retards...BLD, Willy, bsnub...are too deluded to realize, and that is the difference between abuse and reactive abuse.

"Reactive abuse is not the same, and it's important to remember that someone reacting to abuse is not an abuser: they are a victim with no other choice.

A victim that is reacting will never display abuse behaviours first; these behaviours will only be exhibited following a physical, emotional, and psychological attack".