I was chatting to a mate of mine over the holidays and he was telling me about a mutual mate that moved back to Scotland with his missus (BG out of Pattaya) and their little lad. Upshot is that she pissed of with some local lad(about her own age) and left matey to take care of the kiddy. He has been seriously ill and the lad was taken care of by the social because she wouldn't come and lend a hand. Sad, real sad.