Go with your gut Hensen,
5000 baht isnt as much to you as it is to some on here.
best of luck with your choice you make; you cant take it with ya
Go with your gut Hensen,
5000 baht isnt as much to you as it is to some on here.
best of luck with your choice you make; you cant take it with ya
How much you pay... Dill?
more than 5k
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Not in Blighty, where Hensen wants to bring her to take care him.
Big mistake to take a fish out of water, but this one is different, I am sure...
Depends at what hours he hangs out at the local casino.
Just need to wait until 4am and you're good.
Mate, we are all trying to help.
There are tales of massive woe and heatbreak and near bankruptcy.
There are probably more tales of harmony, companionship and love.
However, and this is a big however ... the way you have presented your lady is like this.
She's treating you as a customer, negotiating the price first and payment later.
The price is BHT 5,000 a week. And that is just how it starts ...
Mate, take the time to go back and read this extensive reply I wrote you as you seemed to have ignored almost every single line it ... https://teakdoor.com/the-teakdoor-lou...ml#post3456704
Starting with the Visa Question. Read here ... https://teakdoor.com/thai-visas-and-v...o-england.html
We all wish you good luck, we just don't want to see you become a victim, or worse, caught in a trap you can't get out.
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.Originally Posted by stroller
I am surprised at all the preachers of doom when giving advice.
In fairness a partner from your home country will cost a lot more if things go pear-shaped.
The girl is looking for a bit of security, it is laudable on her behalf, it is a major change in her life moving to a foreign land. She will be well aware of the horror stories of the shit farangs that abound.
As to the girls way of earning a living. I am sure that most of the guys on the forum who are residing in bum fuck nowhere did not meet the bride there!
Just my 2 cents worth
Go for it Hensen - very little downside.
I'd still have to venture caution at marrying and relocating a prostitute you met one week ago.
Take your time, know her for at least 3 weeks first.
Ignoring the girls background, if she's going to be relocating abroad and leaving her 2 kids in Thailand with her parents having to take care of them, then 5k a week or 20k a month to provide schooling, food and roof over her own 2 kids heads is just basically going to cover the bare essentials. Nothing wrong in her demands as any mother wants to make sure her own children are provided for, in fact i'd say they are rather on the low side for her circumstances as I don't think any woman would be comfortable living the life of Riley in the West while their own children are living in poverty.
loads of Thais leave their first kids from their Thai sweetheart with their mother/gran whilst they swan off abroad with the Farang.Originally Posted by buriramboy
Pragmatic is the one who will tell you if thats true or not
Not disputing that, but i'm presuming they all send money back to take care of their own children. Although the Thais I know with previous kids before they met their white knight in shining armour have all managed to bring them to the UK and fair play to them as in my opinion that's what any decent mother would do.
Jayzus, come down to reality.
What do you think the average family income in Isan is?
Anyway, she won't be living it up in Blighty, but be bored stiff during the day while he's working and then resume her escort duties at night - at least until she'll hook up with the local gambling crowd.
i know one Thai bird who went to Denmark with her white knight. He was that nice he even took her daughter on but not her son who stayed in Isaan.
She paid him back by shagging and blackmailing his boss, until the boss told him, shes back here now and her daughter is still in Denmark.
some are plain ruthless
Why is average family income important? We are talking about an individuals circumstances, as you earn more it provides you with more options as in sending your kids to better schools and getting them a better education, maybe move to a nicer house etc.
If she's planning on working as an escort in the UK she'll be fuking loaded and 20k baht will be chump change, will earn that in a day, will just have to stay away from the roulette tables.....
I'm sure Hensen can afford to pay the 400 quid month for the Thai girl's family in Thailand, and he seems to have made up his mind anyway, so good luck to Hensen, but don't forget she will also need/want some pocket money when she's in the UK, so you can double the 400 quid a month to 800 quid a month. Make it a round thousand a month and everyone will be happy. Maybe. Enjoy.
What was Neo's quote?
Oh yeah.....This one's for you Hensen.... in your Viper
Too many experts that dwell in absolutes.
Not a decent mix.
he will love that
Well said. Does raise questions, which should be thought about. Not inferring that the answers are definite, but you really should ponder them before going to your bank. I wonder, what if you offered 3K a week? Nothing wrong with negotiating.Originally Posted by David48atTD
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