^ agree.
Why waste your time/bandwidth online in idle chit-chat, competing with 100's of desperate, sweet talking punters
All competing to win the affectons of a jaded, cyber chat junkie?
Just rock up in person bro...you sound like a decent guy
You should have no worries getting dates the good old fashioned 'natural' way... the more you actively seek out a gf, the more likely you will attract the wrong type of girls.
Do as the Thai fellers do "treat 'em mean, to keep 'em keen"..
Then, by all means, once you snag a keeper, revert to your default nice guy persona.
Heaps of lovely, sincere ladies in Thailand... just be very, very careful of the ones addicted to cyber media.