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Camel Toe
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RickThai
And then there's social IQ. That's where I kick ass. And for me social skills are the hardest to realize in life and the most valuable.
From the content of your posts, you could have fooled me!
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Santi,
RickThai
I hate to be the person to break the news to you but forums are not real life. There's nobody nowhere on this forum or any forum that will ever be entertained, dined, talked to, will receive Christmas fruit cakes or birthday cards from me. If you don't need me and I don't need you that kinda makes it a non-tangible, non-existing relationship, nipped way before the bud. So fuck off.
Forums can be a way to let people communicate their "real" self. Free of face-to-face social conventions, and under the courage of anonymity (delusional actually) they express what they truly feel without regard to their "faceless" audience.
If I had the time or inclination, I might write a paper on the topic of web forums as a means of self-expression. (I find especially interesting how a couple or three posters will deliberately start up some off-topic, tedious conversation because they don't appreciate how a particular thread is evolving. Another, interesting aspect is how some posters develop a "crusade" to attack specific individual posters. Makes you wonder if they have any life outside of forums?)
True, some posters like to have fun and throw out a lot of "tongue-in cheek" posts (which may or may not be interpreted correctly), but many posters "act out" their real feelings on various topics. I find that refreshing in light of all the "political correctness" being forced on people in many of today's societies.
Don't you think it strange, that for all your "you are nothing to me", I am able to elicit such emotional posts from you? It appears you have spent some time and energy reading and reaching some conclusions about me, or else you wouldn't bother to post.
Think about it.
Santi,
RickThai