Thread: Beating your children

At the end of the day its not like you were picking on a little kid like some of the tossers out there do..

Seems to me it was out of frustration...

Your only human, these things happen

more likely muscular, if it was broken you'd know about it...good rest and a dose of tiger balm should have you up and kicking in no time

Originally Posted by keda

up and kicking in no time

I believe that's what caused it in the first place

A kid... who's in college...

That ain't a kid.

As long as he knows that it was for fuking up his education by hanging out in internet cafes, and has learned that doing so from now on will fuk up the rest of his education it was the right thing to do...

if he stops hanging out there because his dad is gonna fuk him up it won't do much, he needs to understand and learn how important his education is, and you need to motivate him to want to be learning about electronics rather than playing some virtual world game in the net cafe.

That'd be good parenting.


Don't take too much advice from me, I'm not that much older than him. And if my Dad came at me, I'd laugh... then floor him.

You are sick, in your own words "wacked the fok out of my son". Hope he sees what you are and leaves. There is no reason to do that to anyone - let alone your own son.

You do need some help, get it soon son.

Oh no left myself open to a red from the sad btards on this forum. Go on, come round and give me a red - the best an uneducated man can do, is strike out.

Originally Posted by dirtydog

I have just whacked the fok out of my son, well, not that bad as he aint down and bleeding, second time in 15 years, do kids need a good beating every now and again?

Probably isn't necessary. You might explore your violent and angry side.

Kids will test your limitations and then try to take a bit more it's up to you how you react, is giving them a slap or a hiding the answer?

Only you know the answer to that!

in a few years time d/d he will give you a good hiding /seeing too
what comes around goes around mate
your in for a good beating for exacting your violence on the lad --
another red ?
asif i give a fcuk

Originally Posted by Nabeel

There is no reason to do that to anyone - let alone your own son.

Wondered when a member of the anti punishment brigade would arrive

Not at all Propagator. Just someone who has kids, loves them and understands, that my expectations are not always theirs.

Punishment to you seems to mean the use of hands etc. You also need some help in your issues.

Originally Posted by Propagator

Originally Posted by Nabeel

There is no reason to do that to anyone - let alone your own son.

Wondered when a member of the anti punishment brigade would arrive

Bollox.

He fuked off from school so he could piss up his life in a net cafe, then as a result he couldn't wire a plug.

Ok, tell he's got 24 hrs to learn how to do it.

If he can't do it by then, he doesn't get any pocket money for 2 weeks (or whatever)

Then, as he can't be trusted, you're gonna check up if he's going to school or not... everyday. If he misses one day, no money for one week.

Then get involved in his studies in a fun manner... motivate him to enjoy what he does.


I'm not a parent but that seems like an ok way to deal it to me.

Originally Posted by Nabeel

Punishment to you seems to mean the use of hands etc. You also need some help in your issues.

Not necessarily so, punishment in deprivation of priveleges etc may also be effective, but when this does not happen, then a slap usually reminds better.
Got a few good cuffs when I was a nipper and it never done me any harm.

Maybe you are going to educate me on my issues. When I need some help I will sure ask for you.

So at what age is it acceptable to beat your children up - what is the maximum acceptable injury you feel justified to inflict - where is the line drawn?

Bullshit! You don't 'beat the fok out of your children'.

Dad Snapped Baby Daughter's Spine

4:35pm UK, Friday October 24, 2008
A father who murdered his 16-month-old daughter by snapping her spine has been jailed for life.




James Howson, 25, was told he must serve at least 22 years.

He had been found guilty of murdering his daughter Amy earlier this week after a trial at Leeds Crown Court.

Amy's mother, Tina Hunt, 26, was given a 12-month suspended sentence for allowing the death of a child and child cruelty. She admitted the charges.

Sentencing Howson, the judge, Mrs Justice Cox, recounted how the defendant placed his daughter over his knee or other object and broke her back at their home while he was looking after her.

He then sat with her body until the morning.

The judge said: "This was, in my view, a chilling and brutal attack. The bone was completely dislocated, resulting in spinal shock, rapid unconsciousness - mercifully - and to death."

The judge also detailed other occasions in the weeks leading up to the murder in December last year when Howson "cruelly and deliberately assaulted Amy", leaving her with multiple fractures to her arms and legs.

Howson showed no emotion as he was led from the dock.

The judge said to him: "I have not seen the slightest evidence of remorse from you for what you did."

The court had heard that the youngster, who was malnourished and dehydrated, had also been slapped and punched in the months leading up to her death.

Howson had a troubled history and had been violent towards women when he was young. Yet he had no previous convictions.

Adrian Waterman QC, defending, described how when Howson was expelled from school as a teenager, a teacher noted in a report: "This boy will commit a murder before too long. I've never seen a such a disturbed young man."

The jury was told Howson was looking after the little girl last December because her mother had morning sickness.

At the time of Amy's death, Hunt was 12 weeks pregnant. Howson said it was possible his partner might have been responsible.

The court heard that in the months before Amy died, health visitors had twice gone to the family's home but her parents had refused to let them in.

Doncaster Primary Care Trust will now have an independent review to find out what happened.

Amy's maternal grandfather, Colin, said the sentence is not enough.
"He could be locked up for 30 or 40 years but he is living. She is dead. It's all wrong.

"It makes you wonder what makes people do that. You think you know them but you don't."

Baby's Spine Snapped: Father James Howson Jailed For Life For Murdering Daughter Amy | UK News | Sky News