JJ....read his next post again as I think you missed it.
Re the better relationship with fathers and kids now than what you may have had with your own Dad......In my case it was not from the beltings that I did not have a good relationship with him...other reasons, so the relationship I have with my son is not therefore because i do not belt him....it is because i love him to death and tell him all the time and do everything with him. We have a great time together and he talks to me non stop. Just this last holiday, he had a ball snorkelling with me for hours. We do lots of stuff like that together.
My old man and me also did things like that together and had fun....but we never got on like I do with my son and I tell him that everyday.
My daughter is a mummies girl but.