
Originally Posted by
katie23
Ok, this is my take on it. Sometimes western female travellers are very trusting/ naive/ foolish. They think that since it's safe in their home countries, that they would be safe in other less developed countries. (but it could happen in their countries too)
Some years ago, I had a bus seatmate, a Canadian lady (maybe late 20s to early 30s). We were both travelling from Phnom Penh to Saigon, 7H bus ride.
She was harassed by a Cambodian tuktuk driver. She hired the tuktuk driver to take her from Phnom Penh to the Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum. On the way back, the driver said that he had some beers in his tuktuk amd if she'd like to stop by a park (or some trees?) to drink some beers with him. Thinking he was just being friendly, she accepted the invite. Then when they were drinking beers, he started saying that she was so beautiful, touching her skin and saying that she's so white, etc.
She then said that they needed to return to the city because she had to meet some friends for dinner but they could meeet again tomorrow. So he drove & dropped her off at her hotel. After that, she stayed in her room the whole afternoon/ evening, fearing that the guy could be outside waiting for her. The next morning, she left the hotel very early to go to the bus station since she was scheduled to travel to Saigon. And then we became seatmates on the bus.
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Prior to her story, I've never known another female who's been sexually harrassed during my travels, though I've read about some cases. I did read a lot abt solo female travelling prior to embarking on my solo journeys. I'm glad that I haven't been on very uncomfy situations. (But there was this one time...)
Red flag abt the Canadian gal's experience - she shouldn't have agreed to the beer side trip. Since the guy had ready beers in his tuktuk, he probably does/ did it to others too. I wouldn't have accepted his invitation & would've requested to be brought back to the city ASAP.
Just like the German girl from the story - she went alone, to a secluded place with the guy (too trusting).
I'm sorry for the German girl's experience. I hope other ladies, especially solo female travellers, read/ watch more about the people and places where they'll be going to. There was this news story of an Australian-Chinese girl who travelled to many countries but cut her hair & pretended/ dressed as a boy when she was in sketchier parts of the world.