First of all, your obsession with other posters' sisters is bordering on creepy, if not even going so far as stalking, and s seriously crossing a line - which is why I keep reporting your various posts.

Secondly, despite having been told previously, you are mixing up two very distinctive and very separate events and circumstances - which, again, does. It come as a surprise to an Aspergers sufferer like yourself, and you are merely confirming your condition.

In one instance, I took my sister along on a 10 day trip to Thailand, which we had a great time on. She had never been, and she had every opportunity to pamper herself - she quickly became a regular at the spa and foot massage places, and she enjoyed shopping at jatujak market, exploring elephant camps, and enjoying all Thailand had to offer. It was a great trip, about 4 years ago - she's be pestering me to take her back ever since :-)

I had also taken my nephew on a couple of trips earlier, and since then. That was fun too.

The other trip was last year, when I went to Thailand, and took my assistant along, so in addition to a vacation we could get a lot of work done as well. I suggested she bring her 9 year old son along, because I happen to believe that travel to exotic countries is a great growing experience for a young mind, and it also encouraged me to go and do more fun stuff, like head to Koh Kood, Koh Chang, go on a snorkeling boat tour, and feed and tend to some elephants in a camp. It was a great trip, and the kid learned to snorkel and is now jonesing to learn scuba diving next. Followed this up later that year with a trip to Barbados, which was even more fun.

Not quite sure why you keep bringing this up, except that you really wanted to give me an opportunity to point out what a great family, friends and colleagues I have, to show the stark constrast to a loner and isolate like yourself.

So, does this satisfy your obsession, or will this continue?