This could very well turn out to be a really dumb question but when you're stopped at the traffic lights etc do you keep your car in gear or put it in neutral/park?
The reason I ask is because generally if I'm stopped for any length of time (say longer than 30sec or so) I tend to put it in neutral - particularly when driving my Benz because I've noticed that the revs are higher and therefore the oil-pressure too. My thinking is that with an older car like that it's always best to maintain as constant an oil pressure as possible and the higher the better (at least within normal limits).
I can't help but also think that in gear there's slightly more strain on the engine (wear & tear) and subsequently fuel economy over a period. Does anyone know if there's actually any appreciable difference?