Girlfriend's mother has just lost major face

[sabang]

but I will settle for a thousand baht

25 quid. Is the West really that poor?
I keep reading stuff about Somalian slappers with heaps of rug rats (of uncertain patriarchy) being put up in million pound plus properties.
Compliments of mother england and it's compliant masses.

[sabaii sabaii]

25 quid. Is the West really that poor?
Yep,
49. somethin to the baht now, so that 25 quid is only about 21 GBP
Take off Western Unions 15% and dodgy exchange rate and well ..........

Lao Kao anyone

[blue]

thats true
but the £ exchange rates a bitch

[sabang]

so that 25 quid is only about 21 GBP
Take off Western Unions 15% and dodgy exchange rate and well

If you pay 15% to transfer money, you deserve penury.

[harrybarracuda]

so that 25 quid is only about 21 GBP
Take off Western Unions 15% and dodgy exchange rate and well

If you pay 15% to transfer money, you deserve penury.

You would be quite amazed at the number of farang happy to swallow this to send money to the girl who ruv rem rong time.

[ItsRobsLife]

I'm trying to piece all this together.

Try reading the thread. Idiot.

[sabaii sabaii]

Oi dognobber, paste the rest of my post, Prick !!!

[sabaii sabaii]

I have gone back to University

Pack your bags now mate.

Is she in Thailand?

Phew I thought I was the only illiterate one on here for a bit then.

[Muadib]

I am proud of my tgf to be honest as she could of bowed down to this pressure, but she didn't!

Hold on, what about mama dis-owning the daughter? I guess she just took it back and all was forgiven? WTF!!!

Moral blackmail is a form of slavery...

[billy the kid]

can't read it all but
talk about thai DRAMA.
they are good actors aren't they and they
can keep it running.
i would ask Bruno to observe all and nothing else.

[genghis61]

just to add to the mix

call from a former neighbour last night, bit upset as last weekend his gf of last 6 months had returned to Korat to look after her mother with lung cancer. Then yesterday her boyfriend from Switzerland arrived to collect the clothes etc she had left behind.

How do ya feel?

[koman]

just to add to the mix

call from a former neighbour last night, bit upset as last weekend his gf of last 6 months had returned to Korat to look after her mother with lung cancer. Then yesterday her boyfriend from Switzerland arrived to collect the clothes etc she had left behind.

How do ya feel?

Failing grade in strategic studies...all round.....

Still, maybe the GF did not lie. Mum may well be sick....may even be in Korat.
The Swiss guy is incidental........

[DrAndy]

Besides, can all of you here put your hand on your heart and say you have done no wrongs in your life - a little trip to Pattaya maybe?

me, me, I have never been to Pattaya

[genghis61]

re #111

my question is

has he just lost major face?

for neighbours, friends, people who know him, of course there will be no shortage of 'told you so' behind his back.

Or is this 'face' BS limited to Thai folk only?

[jimmymck]

Or is this 'face' BS limited to Thai folk only?

Due to the fact most of them could not give a fuck about any foreigners i would say they think only a Thai could lose or gain "face"

I blame alot of these money issue's many people seem to have to to deal with on the stupid fuckwits that just gave what ever the woman wanted which started many years ago, over the years all the "chinese whisper" stories have spread all over the country of what they got, bribed ,how ever you look at it, from the "stupid white fella" its now looked at as the norm that we are ATM's

Some of these boyfriends are/were twats, i have met numourous girls with cars,condo's,large monthly payment etc funded by some muppet flashing his dough about thinking that will impress em ..whilst they carry on working one way or another.

The nearest bloke that lives near me about 15km away,i've never met him, works at sea half the year has this fat ,ugly bitch gf, has brought her a lovely motor, land for the new house,condo in Hue Hin etc etc, common knowledge in the village she has at least one thai geek, and then to top it off as gone and got HIV from one of the geeks...and then c*nt has said she won't tell him she has it,.. maybe she does not want to lose "face"..

never ends the shit that goes on..

[lob]

Some great advice guys, appreciated!

Of course a few sarcastic ones but you expect that from time to time on a public forum!


Didn't one of you say "Welcome to Thailand" ?

what u perseeve as sarcastic is in fact people trying to get u to see the obvious. my advise. dont get yourself worked up/involved with people that are not your concern. u love your girlfriend not her family. u cant help someone that cant help themselves. full stop.

[lob]

Remember: In Asia, you can only lose by stubbornly refusing out of "principle".
And: For good or bad, you "marry" a family, not just a person. If you cannot accept that, leave![/quote]


ah what balls u have. u need a dose of mumps mate. grow some. in thailand as elsewhere , ur selfsufficient or u go under. ur ur own mane or u aint. take care of ur own. fuck the rest of em.

[lob]

my tgf worked in bkk to pay back this debt, taking up a mia-noi role with her thai boss in order to help pay back the bank

Chi shudders.......

And then the OP claims later on that she was doing this so as to pay her Uni fees.

As far as I can gather Thai wives can sometimes accept that their husbands have gone with a prostitute or bar girl for a one night stand but there was only one payment, end of story. No names............no long term commitment.

Mia Nois, little or second wives.......whatever you want to call them are hated due to the fact they are trying to steal a husband and his money which in turn hurts the family.

I would never have a serious relationship with such a woman no matter what as she has already proved her ethics or lack there of.

Again old Bruno is getting the Issarn two step or this is one hell of a boring troll.

do u happen to know anyone without luggage

[lob]

Your GF has lied to you before mate,
what makes you think she isn't lying to you now, and getting that money by hook or by crook ?
just to keep you and her mom sweet

Maybe she's not as naive as you think.

my opinion too.

[Marmite the Dog]

call from a former neighbour last night, bit upset as last weekend his gf of last 6 months had returned to Korat to look after her mother with lung cancer. Then yesterday her boyfriend from Switzerland arrived to collect the clothes etc she had left behind.

She doesn't normally reside on Koh Chang does she?

[genghis61]

She doesn't normally reside on Koh Chang does she?

family near Nakhon Ratchisima; he met her after we left Phuket and has been there at least a year, before who knows. That's the second cashier that he's had as a live-in.
First one gets house when he croaks.

[Lancelot]

Carrry on with your own life and distance yourself from this family Bruno.

If your girlfriend wants to be a part of your life she will soon prove it to you.

Do not let the things you have absolutely no control over get to you let alone trying to understand it.

If we get to vote, I'll cast mine with LT. Good advice...

[DrAndy]

do u happen to know anyone without luggage

only on AirAsia

[DrAndy]

well Bruno, amusing though this thread is, I am always mystified by anyone coming on here and asking for advice on some personal matter

as you have seen, you get replies from "kill the bitch" to "give her all your money, and more", and everything in between

the variety of posters and their experience, education and sense is also wide

[ItsRobsLife]

well Bruno, amusing though this thread is, I am always mystified by anyone coming on here and asking for advice on some personal matter

as you have seen, you get replies from "kill the bitch" to "give her all your money, and more", and everything in between

the variety of posters and their experience, education and sense is also wide

But then you wouldn't know good advice because you never give any.
Where does it say "kill the bitch" and "give her all your money, and more" ?
Only in your post apparently.
No doubt your disappointed the forum didn't rip him to bits so you could snap at his heels with your vapid one liners.