Thread: Thai Girl Pregnant

Hi Everyone,

Ok, BOMBSHELL IN

5.....




4.....




3.....




2.....




1.....


We just went to the doctor. She called me in with her. Doc showed me the child. Showed me the penis which she did tell me it was a boy. Then doc showed me a couple of other things. He measured the head and said 26 weeks. I looked at the doc puzzled and he understood. He measured the head again and it was something like 6.66. Then he showed me the foot or leg at my funny looks and said 4.65 or something and said yes 26 weeks (I may be mixing head and foot up). He gave us a print out which I promptly took control of. I called my boy because I came out to Thailand with a certain week in my mind and had to have my boy count this out. He fumbled around so I hit an internet cafe and pulled up yahoo calendar and counted out. With giving her the benefit of the doubt from the Thursday we first slept together (September 21st) until this Thursday the 15th, I count out 21 weeks.

HOLY FUCKING SHIT. When I bought this to her attention she would not even look at me.

I took her to the black colored pub on Pattaya Central Road just south of 2nd Road. It has aircon (I am sweating bullets at this point) and sat her down. I had a pint of Guiness draft, best fucking beer of my life. I told her "this aint mine" and that she needed to backtrack and figure out who. She still does not look at me. After speaking to my friend on the phone and both of us going "WOW" repeatedly, she slithers off of the seat and makes her way back out into the world sans me.

I feel bad for her but she knew this and tried to hook me for it. That hurts.

Too many people on my so called poll said this was what it was, a sham. Though she is pregnant she knew it was not me and tried to pin this to the kid. Damn. Well instead of a son, I get a vacation out of it. Not a bad trade off for someone absolutely scared shitless of a child.

Going to the pharmacy for a SHITLOAD of condoms...

Thanks again folks, I will keep you posted of any "further" developments though I am sure the book is closed on this one.

WOW

Best of luck mate
Glad you found out in time and it only cost you a holiday and not a lifetime of regrets.

That'S another classic story.

Originally Posted by In Trouble

Going to the pharmacy for a SHITLOAD of condoms...

Looks like you learned something afterall.....

Originally Posted by In Trouble

I had a pint of Guiness draft

Originally Posted by In Trouble

I count out 21 weeks.

The only two sensible things you've done in this whole tale!

(Fetal development)The exact thing happen to me. The baby was born 8 months after the day we met. She never pushed my being the father on me, she only hinted. I waited it out and glad I did. Turned out to be a Netherlander. Last I heard he was sending her money. I have a friend who had a semi-whore girlfriend who announced she was two months pregnant and that two months was the to the day time they'd spent together. The baby was dark, very dark, and at one year of age still looked nothing like him. This is genetics, it can happen this way. He didn't care, and we, his friends, weren't about to bring it up. He wanted a baby. When they started arguing and fighting for a month straight he left her and went home with the child. Sometimes it happens this way too.

Originally Posted by In Trouble

I feel bad for her but she knew this and tried to hook me for it. That hurts.

Too many people on my so called poll said this was what it was, a sham. Though she is pregnant she knew it was not me and tried to pin this to the kid. Damn.

Thank Fuck for that!

Tho a number of us did TELL U SO!

but well pleased you found out and well pleased that their is no problem for ya mate!

well pleased.

silly fuckn bitch! cant trust them!

Gald it all turned out right, at least you attemptd to do the "right thing"

Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb

Thank Fuck for that! Tho a number of us did TELL U SO! but well pleased you found out and well pleased that their is no problem for ya mate! well pleased. silly fuckn bitch! cant trust them!

WELL SAID .They think we are stupid,(not all of us are).
But we do let our cocks rule our brain. My dad said to me once you can't fill 2 heads with blood at the same time.

stfranalum, it seems you have nto read the whole thread.

I just caught this thread today, and I really have to say I'm "concerned" at some speculation on women and their reproductive systems.

So...

A sonogram won't tell you anything about parentage except the general number of weeks since conception, and it is accurate to within about 5 days.

A DNA test won't be done until the child is born and will be conducted via saliva or blood (blood is best). Otherwise, they'd be sticking needles in places they shouldn't be sticking, at risk of miscarriage.

An abortion is safest at up to 12 weeks (suction method), but can be done by dilation and curetage up to 5 months. In cases up to about 29 weeks, where the mother's health is endangered or the fetus is found to be no longer viable or malformed, an abortion consists of essentially killing the fetus with a saline solution and inducing what amounts to labor. No woman willingly volunteers for that.

Once a woman feels the fetus move, the "quickening," you'll have a devil of a time talking her out of an abortion.

My husband's ex was a Thai bargirl over 35 years ago. First she gave him a raging case of herpes (which we continue to deal with these many years later). After having tried unsuccessfully to have a child, suddenly she was pregnant and wanting an abortion. They had the baby, and 28 years later, soon after I got to know my stepson, I was the first person to ask if his son was "biologically his." There's nothing of my husband in that young man (while he's an absolutely delightful fellow). Of course, he suspects the child was not his, but he wanted a family. So the subject was never discussed, he reared the boy as his son, and the emotional bond transcends the original situation.

So if you don't want to get into such a situation that will last a lifetime....WEAR A CONDOM.

Originally Posted by LesBonsTemps

I just caught this thread today, and I really have to say I'm "concerned" at some speculation on women and their reproductive systems.

So...

A sonogram won't tell you anything about parentage except the general number of weeks since conception, and it is accurate to within about 5 days.

Seems you didnt read the whole thread either..... there is a 5 WEEK differential between when the baby was concieved and when the fella in question was even in the country...... let alone shagging this girl. I'd say thats a pretty good indication of parentage.

Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb

Originally Posted by LesBonsTemps

I just caught this thread today, and I really have to say I'm "concerned" at some speculation on women and their reproductive systems.

So...

A sonogram won't tell you anything about parentage except the general number of weeks since conception, and it is accurate to within about 5 days.

Seems you didnt read the whole thread either..... there is a 5 WEEK differential between when the baby was concieved and when the fella in question was even in the country...... let alone shagging this girl. I'd say thats a pretty good indication of parentage.

No, Kingwilly, I read and understood what he was saying -- it just sounded as if he was going to make decisions based solely on the results of the sonogram, and if dates were close, I'd sure recommend waiting for the DNA test. And by the time the baby arrives, the emotional attachment can be there, DNA or not.

But 5 weeks.?! You're so right. It sure determines who's NOT a parent.

Hi everyone,

I am in Singapore on the last leg of this convoluted itin during this convoluted episode. I will reply to all and give a little more on the situation. You helped me through so I will follow up with info so anyone else in this position will have some info on how to and NOT to do things. Got a vacation out of it but this should not have been a sole reason for my travels as you guys were SO right. More to come.

In Trouble

Originally Posted by Helicopter

The chances of the girl being pregnant and you been the father are pretty remote

hehehe

TOLD YOU SO!

You cant believe a fuckin word that comes out of a Thai's mouth.

It's absolute bullshit most of the time, even more so when directed at a farang

Hi Everyone,

Just to follow up:

We went to the same doctor as she was already going. I felt that this was the best thing to do as he would have more info on where this girl's timeframe really was. He adamantly said 26 weeks. Took two measurements and measured the head twice. Though he measured, it looked like the computer gave the measurment data in centimeters I guess and that machine listed her at 26 weeks. I find no reason to follow up on this because I was about 8000 miles away when this occured.

I spoke to the girl a couple of times while in Thailand via sms. I prodded for more info under the premise of still maybe trying to help her. She does not seem to know or care who the father is, leads me to believe that anyone with a close enough timeframe to August and gave contact info is getting an email similar to mine. I venture to say I was the only one who went out there to find out what the situation really was. Kinda glad I did, makes life a little easier back home. She said that if I wanted to help can friends help friends? I told her what I went through emotionally with this and I guess she has decided to let me move on with my emotional losses because she never responded to that email.

The mamasaan did say to my friend that she thought she was closer to 5 months at the time my friend was out there. She was the most honest Thai girl involved in all this... There was a third Thai girl involved in this also. One who's 5 y.o. son knows me and I have held on numerous occasions and who I have known for about 4 years. The fact that she helped perpetuate this, even though she may have believed the girl and not known the timeframe, diasappoints me. She is the one who first told my friends about this and drove the girl to the hotel when I first arrived, the one who laughed at me. I considered her almost family...

So many lessons...

Originally Posted by sabang

There's little chance the baby is yours. Why do you think she is reluctant to have the DNA test?
It's likely she wanted a baby anyway. The pill, or morning after pill, is widely available here and widely used. Any money she can make off it is icing on the cake.
I'd pay her 5000 Bht, to assuage your conscience. Half a dozen others will probably do the same.

Would 'ave been cheaper to pay her the 5000 Bht then!
I hope you got some other mongering action whilst you were over here anyway.
This same story is being played out over and over in Los, Fil's, Cuba, Brazil, you name it. It's been tried on me twice, both times by Filipina's. At least once I had an honest Brazilian GF (part time whore) for a while, who said she wanted my baby because I was white. Apart from the fun we had together, I might as well been an IVF test tube. For all I know, I may have a biological baby living somewhere in the Favela's of Rio.
The girl, bless her, wanted to have a baby. She didn't know herself who the father was, she just had a range of 'possibles'. As I said, what money she could extract from them out of their ridiculous Judeo-Christian guilt complex was just icing on the cake.
She is a professional sex worker. She is an adult. She has full access to contraceptives, and knowledge of them. It was her choice to get pregnant and keep the baby. The particular source of sperm for this miracle of germination is frankly irrelevant.
Anyway, live and learn.

sabang