Emergency - Please Help

[Spin]

Marry in haste, repent at lesiure.

That was something my mother told me years ago and seems to be a useful guide.

I would not be pressured into anything like this.

Maybe you should move out to the motel and let Sandra stay at her folks place until the way ahead is clearer?

[The Gentleman Scamp]

Marry in haste, repent at lesiure.

That was something my mother told me years ago and seems to be a useful guide.

I would not be pressured into anything like this.

Maybe you should move out to the motel and let Sandra stay at her folks place until the way ahead is clearer?

I don't even know if I could last another month now - her mother has ruined everything. I am totally dependant on her family, even to eat. It's that void of westerners here.

If I can do it safely then I think I should just get out and try to keep in touch with Sandra (if she would even want to after I left) - if thay want to play the 'all or nothing' game then perhaps I should do, maybe her daughters tears will make her realize how unreasonable she is being.

Sandra will no doubt return to Hong Kong embarrassed and broken hearted to resume her work.

Still interested to know what 'married' would actually intail, maybe I should contact the embassy.