Now this is for skype users, it will be similar for idiots that use yahoo messenger and hotmail messenger, but if your dumb enough to use them then you probably won't understand how to do this anyway, you do realise that windows crap is the most likely crap for you to get a virus or trojans or whatever and all your banking details stolen etc, of course you don't, thats why you use it.
Anyway when the sensible people first install skype it will choose a port for you, this you can change if you wish, to find it open skype, click "Tools", "Options", "Advanced" and then "Connections" here it will list the port they use for you, also port 80 and 443 maybe used, anyway now you got the port number you need to keep an eye out for.
So your wife who told you she was going to the South of France on a camping holiday decides to instant message you, you believe she has gone to the Caribbean for a sex tourist holiday, first off so click "Start", now click "RUN".
Now a new window has opened, type in "cmd" and click "OK".
Right you now got your shiny black box up again, now the easiest and surest way to get the ip of where the sex hungry bitch maybe is to transfer a file either way, this gives you a longer timeframe, obviously this is not likely to happen, so, type in "netstat" and hit enter, do it a few times as you are sending and receiving messages, the odds are you will pick it up as it checks connections, anyway for this one I stuck my port as 3561 and here we have it, the Nigerian scammer who offered me millions, at least I think this is the right screen shot
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