^hick, from your previous remarks, you're the type who doesn't like crowds and very touristy places. You haven't been to Petra or the pyramids at Giza, despite being the ME for some years already (correct me if I'm wrong, but I think I read that in another thread).
My friend is the type who takes selfies, is an FB addict and goes to the famous tourist spots in a place. She & her family also don't do drugs or alcohol, so less chances of getting the services of a motocy guy for stuff. So diff strokes for diff folks.
I've prepared itineraries for my friend, one for oop North (including Halong Bay) & another for the South. I'll let her choose.