Sinsot auction them dumped - what would you do?

[Richy]

My 27 year old Thai girlfriend of 2 years (average paid office girl) recently asked me for 500,000 baht sinsot or she would leave me and go to Australia with some rich guy she met on the net. It pissed me off, of course, to be treated that way, but I was totally in love with her, so after a couple of day of thinking whether I could stand to lose her, I agreed. Problem is, she left for Sydney unannounceed a few days later, the visa already secured (after sleeping with me the night before she left). This has left me screwed up and sleepless.

I have since found out that the Australian she was seeing was her bit on the side for the past year, but he didn't know it, and I have found his email address via hi5. Would I be justified in letting him know what has been going on for the last year, or should I wish her the best and forget her?

[NickA]

^Yeah, go on, tell him.... he probably won't believe you or listen, but what have you got to lose?

[watterinja]

E-mail him for his own peace of mind...

[ChiangMai noon]

got any nude shots?

if so,i'd post them here.

i'd like to see what a 500k valued sinsot looks like without clothes.

[Richy]

I was thinking more of revenge on her

[Rattanaburi]

She hasn't got your money I hope. Screw her let the guy know. He may have known all along though. There are plenty of women out there for you. You might want to try a country where the girls aren't so money hungry.

[kingwilly]

similar thing happened to a friend of mine.

easiest to let it go in the long run..

[NickA]

^^^27 as well, been on the shelf for a long time, you'd have thought they'd be putting her up for a quick sale

[Richy]

She hasn't got your money I hope. Screw her let the guy know. He may have known all along though. There are plenty of women out there for you. You might want to try a country where the girls aren't so money hungry.

I didn't give her the money yet.

Yes you are right, but I'm 40 and this is the first and only girl I've ever wanted to marry. That is why I reluctently agreed to this sinsot thing.

I honestly thought she was making up the Australian purely to hurry me up and propose to her; I didn't think it was real until she called me from Sydney. It's now been 3 weeks and I can't contact her. It feels shit and unfair.

[melvbot]

Plenty more fish in the sea and she doesnt have your cash, happy days.

[kingwilly]

It feels shit and unfair.

I'm sure it does,

but it also shows her true colours.

not all thai girls are like this.

best to forget this one as soon as you can. revenge or chasing her will only prolong the grief.

[taxexile]

so after a couple of day of thinking whether I could stand to lose her, I agreed.

easy for me to say of course , but after her ultimatum to you you should have ended it.

all that remains now is for you to inform the boyfriend that the secondary syphillis you have been suffering from for quite a while is unfortunately a particularly antibiotic resistant strain.

[Richy]

similar thing happened to a friend of mine.

easiest to let it go in the long run..

I was gonna ask you how you got over it until you changed it from me to a friend of mine. So how did your friend get over it? Agreeing to marry someone because you can't live without them and then knowing they have left the country to sleep with someone else is a killer.

As a sideline, she asked for that large amount because I had a gig for a few weeks and she found out. She said the amount was to prove that I really loved her and wouldn't do it again.

[English Noodles]

Whats your regular nic on here?

[Looper]

Assuming this is not a troll are you insane mate? This girl has done you a favour by revealing her true colours. You could have ended up marrying a girl who is obviously happy to fok you over. Lucky escape I would say.

Anyway, tell her 500,000 is '07 money. She will have to wait until late 2010 at the earliest for the economic tide to come back in which is a risk with her 30's coming up fast.

[Felix Sphinx]

similar thing happened to a friend of mine.

easiest to let it go in the long run..

I dont recall anything I ever agred with from KW but hes spot on here Of course itll take time youve been used. Theres more life Look forward not back The other guy is also being shafted

[NickA]

^Sounds like she's a lying money grabbing bitch.

You done well to get rid of her.

Better now than a couple of years down the road with all your money and kids.

[kingwilly]

I was gonna ask you how you got over it until you changed it from me to a friend of mine.

typo.

So how did your friend get over it? Agreeing to marry someone because you can't live without them and then knowing they have left the country to sleep with someone else is a killer.

not easy.

takes a fuckn long time. but every time you email, call, sms, listen to favourite songs, let yourself wallow in the misery prolongs the eventual recovery.

took my mate a good couple of years.

[English Noodles]

She said the amount was to prove that I really loved her

You should have offered her parents 5K and said the amount was to prove she really loved you.

[Loy Toy]

Don't play her nasty game and walk away mate.

Allow the aussie guy to find out for himself. You may find you may need to use that information at a latter date and for your benefit.

If your appartment is in your name collect all her gear, box it and inform her family to pick it up. If it is her name move out and find your own place.

Best you cut ties with her immediately and move on with your life.

Do not contact her and refuse offers for a meeting.

If she threatens you threaten her back with the e-mail number.

Good luck!

[Felix Sphinx]

^ subtle tactics wish Id thought of that before I got hitched

[kingwilly]

The other guy is also being shafted

good point.

^Sounds like she's a lying money grabbing bitch. You done well to get rid of her. Better now than a couple of years down the road with all your money and kids.

quite true.

hold onto this thought, as it will help you get over her.

[kingwilly]

i'd like to see what a 500k valued sinsot looks like without clothes.

phffft.

The g/f you met got 600K, 10 baht of gold plus a green card.

And she was a27 year old ex-bargirl, with a child and tattoos.

[Gerbil]

Yep, forget her.

500,000 buys a lot of slagdogs.

[kingwilly]

And she was a27 year old ex-bargirl, with a child and tattoos.

That had not finished high school.