...who is this "they" you're complaining about? What stuff?...
...you've obviously never visited the "heartland"...northeast and northwest attitudes have little in common with the interior from Idaho to South Carolina...hatred of the other is still the only clarity most folks in fly-over states share...
...so, the gay parades have been successful in some areas...
...who is this "they"?...and how do you know what they need?
...that's what we do...every day of our lives and that's exactly what derives the hatred in so many folks...
...time to recalibrate your thinking: everyone who's gay "cares"...if we stopped caring we might as well return to the closet...if you don't like the noise generated by liberation, turn your back and walk away...and join the comfortable majority...