So we’ve been robbed! But I can’t help but think, “I told you so!”
To cut a long story short, the wife, daughter and I have been living in between Khlong Sam Wa, where we purchased recently, and Bang Kea which my wife owned before we met and where her parents stay.
For the last six months – with planning for an extension, I have tried to get my wife to encourage our elderly parents to live with us, as the three days a week travelling back and forth is playing havoc on our relationship. As it stands, I am more or less a full-time dad who chose to get my daughter out of the chaos, and to an International school that doesn’t involve my little one spending her early years in a car. Her school and my workplace are 4 and 8km away from home, so it’s ideal.
The parents refused because of relations and friends that live in the same neighbourhood, despite the father’s health diminishing and needing full-time care (we’ve had a nanny/career for four years). I’ve commented to my wife about waiting for an accident to happen before they see sense. Well, three weeks ago he fell and broke his knee and is now bedridden! So now we are rushing around to get an extension built that could have averted the present situation in done earlier.
During this period, within the last six months, we had an issue with our nanny. The FLs gold ring had gone missing from the place it was kept. In an attempt to find it, my wife turned everything upside in the parent's bedroom. I, admittedly, jumped to a conclusion following comments I made sometime prior about the nanny getting too comfortable and not to let her take advantage of our being away four days of the week.
During a family conversation, we brought the missing ring up with the nanny being in the same room. Two days later the ring reappeared on top of a small, old portable radio that was in the cupboard that the wife had emptied. So if it were on the radio, it would have fallen to the ground during her search.
Two weeks following, we heard neighbours and aunts gossiping about the nanny asking family members and some neighbours for a loan of cash. The alarm bells rang for me! I asked my wife to get rid, as she was far too close to her, and put too much trust in her. My wife gave her the benefit of the doubt, but I emphasised that she is not welcome to the home in Khlong Sam Wa.
Yesterday, we received a call from a relative that our mother could not find the key to her locked dresser, which she keeps in our bedroom. She noticed the key was missing last week, but only informed us via an aunt yesterday. In the meantime, the uncle has come to the house to force the locked cabinet door open, and all her valuable belongings including gold rings and bars, 40k in cash along with other items such as rubies, have gone. The only thing left was a gold locket with an image of my wife’s 105-year-old GM that passed recently!
So this morning, the wife went to the house to check on other items of value that she has in that room. On checking her bags in the cupboard, a classic Rolex, and some other expensive watch (Patak something) I’m not a watch person, along with some gold rings have gone, but not the ring boxes. I guess the thief had a lot of time on their hands! Interestingly, all the bags, and clothes that were folded on top of the bags have been neatly put back in place. Additionally, there is no sign of a break-in to the house. The house is occupied 24hrs a day.
Why do Thais wait for the wheels to fall off before action? I warned my wife to bring all valuables to the new house!