Brilliant that,
Add AC, interwebby, hot water and a big fuk off Telli it's all good.
Brilliant that,
Add AC, interwebby, hot water and a big fuk off Telli it's all good.
I think the old phrase ......all your eggs in one basket ............mabe best to keep a door open somewhere along the line ....... just incase she moves you along , or you get absolutely bored outta your skull living in what amounts to little more than solitary confinementOriginally Posted by fredwiggy
I'm actually thinking of renting a Gaff in Bali.
So I'll have a base in Bangkok, a gaff in Bali and my house in Perth. Just do the golden triangle thing.
Rents are cheap in Bali as they are in Bangkok, more than likely get a few good mates involved in the Bali one. Plenty of Guys I know go there regularly.
No intention at all of buying shit in these monkey towns but they are a great place to Visit.
Would it be fare to say that most older Guys come to Thailand after being fuked over or finished with a marriage in the real world. ??
Some like myself come after Retirement and some come when younger and work here.
IF you are in the first lot why the fuk would ya want to lock yourself into something that is totally out of your control.
This has me royally Fooked.
When the house is in your name also, it's part yours, no matter where you live, this according to laws in every country.Yes, if you divorce, both might want the house, so one will either have to pay off the other, or the house will be sold and the proceeds split. It seems most of the posters here have been trashed by their other half. But from what I've heard, and seen, a lot of foreigners are doing just fine in Thailand married to Thai women. From Thai law---
If protection is required the first protection for the foreign spouse lies in obtaining joint or sole ownership over the building separate from the land. It's only the land aspect of the property that is restricted for foreign ownership, not the structures upon on the land or immovable property as a whole. The structures on the land can be a jointly owned property or even owned as a personal property of the foreign husband (section 1472). By assuring ownership or co-ownership over the house in a separate procedure at the Land Department the foreign spouse prevents a situation where the Thai spouse is able to sell the whole property without the consent of the other spouse (see section 1476 management of Sin Somros above). When the house is regarded as Sin Somros it must be jointly managed by both spouses and selling would need both spouses consent (unless a prenuptial agreement to this regard has been made giving sole management of Sin Somros listed in 1476 to one of the spouses).
Section 1475 (Civil and Commercial Code): 'Where any Sin Somros is property of the kind mentioned in Section 456 (meaning immovable property) of this Code or has documentary title, either husband or wife may apply for having his or her name entered in the documents as co-owners'
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Try selling your part here.Originally Posted by fredwiggy
Building the house is for both of us to live there with our child. When I pass on, she will have a place to live for her and our child. Sometimes you have to trust your wife won't stab you in the back and doesn't have ulterior motives like some do, in every country in the world.
Can't knock you there mate. But stay away from family. In saying that I live relatively close to my MiL but I/we didn't build on her land. I built a wall around our house and my MiL, and others, have to ring the doorbell before coming on the property. It took a while for them to learn to ring the bell but learn they did.Originally Posted by fredwiggy
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Well, since you have a kid you must now look after both of them.
Just build her the house and be done with it, she then has a place to live with her kid whatever happens. You're simply expendable.
Totally different gig when one punches out a sprog over here.
You treat a woman as your equal, with respect,kindness and love, and are faithful to her, give her a house to live in, respect and help out her family when you can,and take care of your children and don't treat her as a slave, she would have to be an imbecile to ever want to lose you.
Where I come from we call what you are doing a "tough row to hoe" I wish you the best of luck. Let us know how it turns out.
Mate you say things which really show you to be naive. If I were you I'd close the thread.Originally Posted by fredwiggy
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Fredwiggy is taking the piss mate, you do realise that.
We are only humoring him and going along for the ride.
Of course I did.Originally Posted by terry57
Naive? Far from it. Been there done that many times,women are women everywhere. You take a chance that you picked one that understands what she has, especially after she's had crap before you. A woman anywhere with kids, especially from you, doesn't want to lose a man that has her best interests at heart. Like I said, IF you treat your woman right, she will treat you right. If you don't, you end up posting negative comments on forums because you treated your woman like a slave, or worse, and she felt she could do better without you. Women aren't stupid, maybe naive about men, but when a smart one knows what she has, she takes steps to keep it around, because she already knows the other side. If you picked a woman that is either disturbed or insanely greedy, you get everything you can in your name also, so that when the worse happens, you can leave with enough to start again elsewhere.
They aren't smarter, they're just racking in the cash from the desperate. Women don't understand men unless they make a conscious effort to do so. The same with men. No matter how much you know, you still have to look at every one as an individual. All depends on how they were raised and their morals and values. Time always tells what you end up with.
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Yes, well wank to that Freddy.
The Whores in Thailand bleed money out of the silly monger, desperate fukers melt in their arms.
Whores deserve the mongers wealth, you must agree on that one Freddy.
The thing most guys don't realize is, this is a con that all women in Thailand see and know about. From the sweetest most inocent school girl, to the hard as nails bar girl. It is being played out in every village in Thailand daily. And it is discussed daily by these gals. They have it down to an art form. I have personally seen parents coaching there daughters on what to do and how to proceed. This ain't no game man. They are dead serious and ruthless.
I don't know where you are from, but you need to be aware this is a very real problem in Thailand and in S.E. Asia in general.
^ My gf explains it a bit different but yes says the Thai woman will suck you dry in more ways than one. Mabey she is trying to intimidate me in to not straying, don't plan on it .
Terry I have never punched out a sprog. Is that some branch of the service over there?
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