Plan B

[FlyFree]

Well, plan A hasn't worked out so well over the long haul, has it.

After a handful of sane wives, a whole bunch of mostly semi-crazy gf's, I'm done.

The many positives are buried by the mountains of negatives.

So I reckon it's time for plan B. A bit of mental adjustment and Bob's your uncle, I reckon.

I get on well with guys. No insidious, recurring bullshit.

But I suppose I have things to learn. This place is crawling with poofs, else can someone point me to gay-school.


Sex is sex. Just some mental adjustments to be done. That I can do.

[wasabi]

Sorry cannot help you.

[rickschoppers]

Wrong way to go IMO. Who says you have to fall in love with women to enjoy them. There is nothing more beautiful on earth than the female body.

How could anyone think a male body could be more attractive? I just don't get it.

[BaitongBoy]

“But you are not your bank account, or your ambition. You're not the cold clay lump you leave behind when you die. You're not your collection of walking personality disorders. You are Spirit, you are love, and even though it is hard to believe sometimes, you are free. You're here to love, and be loved, freely. If you find out next week that you are terminally ill - and we're all terminally ill on this bus - what will matter are memories of beauty, that people loved you, and that you loved them.”
― Anne Lamott, Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith

[FlyFree]

Wrong way to go IMO. Who says you have to fall in love with women to enjoy them. There is nothing more beautiful on earth than the female body.

How could anyone think a male body could be more attractive? I just don't get it.

The male of most species is more attractive, by far. It's just your perspective.

Love is not the issue once you're past all that bull. Love is a destructive condition. It's chains that has been glorified to try and cope with a biological drive that does not bode well for the sufferer.

Companionship and level-headed friendship have so much more to offer with so much less risk of causing destruction.

These things females seldom provide in any stable fashion. They're too full of crap.

When's the last time you had a decent, interesting discussion with a female. I really cannot recall one, ever. And I've been involved with all kinds of women.


I 'love' women, I've just had it with the inevitable insidious crap. Don't want to live with them anymore. Period. Bored with p4p long time ago.

It's all in the mind.

[FlyFree]

“But you are not your bank account, or your ambition. You're not the cold clay lump you leave behind when you die. You're not your collection of walking personality disorders. You are Spirit, you are love, and even though it is hard to believe sometimes, you are free. You're here to love, and be loved, freely. If you find out next week that you are terminally ill - and we're all terminally ill on this bus - what will matter are memories of beauty, that people loved you, and that you loved them.”
― Anne Lamott, Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith

Sorry. Nice words but pure airy-fairy junk. And that comes from an artist.

You are here to fuck. Period. Enjoy it and die without regret.

Again. From an emotional man. But I know from wench those emotions come. I don't have to build fairy tales in my mind to cope with the meaninglessness (?) of life.

I can admire the stunning beauty of the universe and life. It does not mean it has any meaning. I'm not threatened by it.

[thaimeme]

Perhaps the derived issues/problems originate from you.....not your partner[s].
Female or male.

Perhaps a clear look at yourself would be more beneficial.

[rickschoppers]

Wrong way to go IMO. Who says you have to fall in love with women to enjoy them. There is nothing more beautiful on earth than the female body.

How could anyone think a male body could be more attractive? I just don't get it.

The male of most species is more attractive, by far. It's just your perspective.

Love is not the issue once you're past all that bull. Love is a destructive condition. It's chains that has been glorified to try and cope with a biological drive that does not bode well for the sufferer.

Companionship and level-headed friendship have so much more to offer with so much less risk of causing destruction.

These things females seldom provide in any stable fashion. They're too full of crap.

When's the last time you had a decent, interesting discussion with a female. I really cannot recall one, ever. And I've been involved with all kinds of women.


I 'love' women, I've just had it with the inevitable insidious crap. Don't want to live with them anymore. Period. Bored with p4p long time ago.

It's all in the mind.

Yes FF, we have two completely different perspectives, and that is OK. As long as I am not pushed to accept another's perspective, I am fine. My feelings about women are obviously different than yours. I do agree they are hard to understand at times, but I have long given up trying to figure them out. Things are definitely better for me in SEA than back home. I hardly bother talking to any females in the US and can't wait to get back to Thailand. Again, it is a difference in perspective, as you have already stated.

I guess whatever makes you happy is the right path to take.

[kingwilly]

I thought this was a thread about PlanB, the poster.

[nidhogg]

Bit drastic, flyfree, but my suggestion is you pm butters, he will help you.

Personally I would rather xhamster and a box of tissues and keep on going the hetro route, but hey, its your bot bot.

[RangsitRiot]

Go to a boy bar and have a test drive?

[Necron99]

So, you wanna play for the other team huh?
Think you're a pitcher or a catcher?
Most gay males I have observed are more neurotic and bitchy than any chick could be.
I suggest you pop over to TV and spend a few weeks in the fag forum with IJustWannaFeltch and JingjingThing before you decide.

[PlanK]

Huh?



Not entirely sure about what your sick fantasies of re-enacting Luke Skywalker in his X-(rated) Wing, on approach to the rounded, buttocks-like, Death-Star, intent only on delving deep into that treacherous trench, firing his load into the exhaust port, to much acclaim from his male companions, have to do with me?

can someone point me to gay-school.

pRickslurper looks like your go to guy.

[nidhogg]

Huh?



Not entirely sure about what your sick fantasies of re-enacting Luke Skywalker in his X-(rated) Wing, on approach to the rounded, buttocks-like, Death-Star, intent only on delving deep into that treacherous trench, firing his load into the exhaust port, to much acclaim from his male companions, have to do with me?

can someone point me to gay-school.

pRickslurper looks like your go to guy.

i think the whole thread is a ping for you to have hot, sweaty, man on man lurve with flyfree. I am still trying to work out why he did not just PM you.....

[Looper]

You can't really go wrong there. Thing is guys are are essentially horny. Women are essentially coy. So batting from the pavilion end means you get heaps more sex than knocking your pan out chasing women.

[nidhogg]

You can't really go wrong there. Thing is guys are are essentially horny. Women are essentially coy. So batting from the pavilion end means you get heaps more sex than knocking your pan out chasing women.

Indeed. Perfect logic. But I still have to object to more than one penis in the bed........

[PlanK]

i think the whole thread is a ping for you to have hot, sweaty, man on man lurve with flyfree. I am still trying to work out why he did not just PM you.....

I was talking about Star Wars, not sure why you had to go all gay with the explicit man on man references. If you play for the otter team, all good. Just don't slander good, wholesome, family entertainment like Star Wars with your alternative lifestyle ideology, okay.

[thaimeme]

Real men...

[PlanK]

^

Crickey, they're coming out of the closet left, right and... erm left again, tonight!

[nidhogg]

Just don't slander good, wholesome, family entertainment like Star Wars with your alternative lifestyle ideology, okay.

So the whole incest sub plot just passed you by eh? Fair enough.

[PlanK]

So the whole incest sub plot just passed you by eh? Fair enough.

An honest mistake. Many testimonials from Wales, Tasmania, Invercargil, Southern states of 'Merica will confirm this is a common occurrence and nothing to be worried about.

[nidhogg]

So the whole incest sub plot just passed you by eh? Fair enough.

An honest mistake. Many testimonials from Wales, Tasmania, Invercargil, Southern states of 'Merica will confirm this is a common occurrence and nothing to be worried about.

LOL. Point taken.

[kingwilly]

You can't really go wrong there. Thing is guys are are essentially horny. Women are essentially coy. So batting from the pavilion end means you get heaps more sex than knocking your pan out chasing women.

Indeed. Perfect logic. But I still have to object to more than one penis in the bed........

And goodness gracious they've discovered a solution to that problem for you.

https://www.bumrungrad.com/doctors/Sattha-Siritantikorn

[david44]

Od how todays homphobia is still tolerated here ,while saying the Zionists attacked USA or the Mods are morons is heresy

[nidhogg]

You can't really go wrong there. Thing is guys are are essentially horny. Women are essentially coy. So batting from the pavilion end means you get heaps more sex than knocking your pan out chasing women.

Indeed. Perfect logic. But I still have to object to more than one penis in the bed........

And goodness gracious they've discovered a solution to that problem for you.

https://www.bumrungrad.com/doctors/Sattha-Siritantikorn

Point to KW. Well played, Sir. Well played indeed.