Thread: Abstaining from sex in LOS

Most of the carnie twats I used to work with can't wait to get to Thailand and have sex with girls* - they are practically undoing their belts as they pass customs.

Other blokes, for example actor Willem Dafoe, just pop over for a break from filming a movie in Hanoi and remain faithful to their wife whilst enjoying a coffee at the Banyan Tree Hotel.

Is Thailand a silly place to live with a woman and attempt to stay faithful or does the ubiquitous temptation act as a test of the relationships strength, OR.. Is it simply not an issue?

Perhaps after so many visits to the land of mostly plastic smiles the novelty of sex has just worn off, I doubt it - it could be because I am on the phone to the Phillipines everyday and a certain woman has captured my heart or maybe, just maybe I am on the road to growing up.

It's well over a week now, and I've seen a few hotties about but gone is the desire to chat them up, it would just seem rude, just as it would be rude if I approached a famous seppo actor on a rooftop bar and said "How come your mouth is so fucking wide?" instead of politely acknowledging his prescence, offering him an L&M menthol and asking if Sony Pictures allowed him to keep his Green Goblin costume.

I am not counting the days like a smoker who has quit, the urge may hit me again at some stage - and if it did, then what do you, the reader of this post deem as unfaithful, where do you draw the line?

To some women, being unfaithful is getting 'involved' with another woman wheras many women would turn a blind eye to the occasional short time so long as that's all it was. Personally I think that shagging anyone else is being unfaithful, but what about paying some woman to masturbate you off then mop up your spaggle with a damp towel? I don't think that is being unfaithful, just wasting money paying somebody for something you have done thousands of time at no expense whatsoever.

Is shagging some brass when you actually really like somebody in the country next door really that fulfilling? Is it worth risking the fact that it could result in nothing more than guilt and emptiness or may even turn out to be a sexually cringeworthy two hours of your life with a cheap, useless slag - a bit like Willem Dafoe must have felt after watching that movie he made with Madonna in 1993 - Body Of Evidence.

I guess time will tell.... By the way I wanted to start a poll on 'HOW FAR IS UNFAITHFUL' but I don't know how because I am thick as shit.

* Et al.