I assume that most people and if not everybody understands the meaning of gik in Thai.

If you have a lady you love and are, or are not married, how acceptable do you think it would be to have one? What are the burdens, financial, moral, time consumption.
Have you had one before?
How many at one time?
Were you ever caught?
If you were, what did the misses have to say?

I know some people have wives that encourage it.

What about yours?