Thread: Living with a Bar Girl and her children

I live with my Thai Girlfriend in Udon Thani that I met in a bar in Ao Nang for 2 months now.

We live together with her 2 children in her house, and have just planted rice in her 7 rai of fields. (I have seen and had the paperwork explained to me at the Department of Land.)

She told me she had just started working the bar 3 weeks before we met, which has proved to be true on checking flights and other documents. Prior to this she had a hair salon in her home which I have just converted into a bedroom as she did not get enough trade.

I have met her family (which include a couple of Aussie husbands of sisters) and she has introduced me to the neighbours in the village as her new husband (although we not married yet. (She says it is not a done thing to live together in her home in the eyes of her neighbours, so we are 'married')

Everyone I have spoken to say she is a great girl and well respected in the community, even the local Immigration Office workers stop what they are doing to say hello, both men and ladies and to help us out with any enquiry we have.

Now the big question.....

She went into the Bar due to debts which I have authenticated with her bank and they are real.

I just worry, after reading the horror stories about Thai Bar Girls am I going to end up the fool on the hill.

Any thought would be welcomed

Originally Posted by MarknMin

I just worry, after reading the horror stories about Thai Bar Girls am I going to end up the fool on the hill.

Go for it. What have you got to lose?

Originally Posted by MarknMin

Any thought would be welcomed

My initial thought is that this is a troll.

My next thought is that if it isn't then the relationship is doomed. Not because she is/was a bar girl but because you clearly don't trust her so what's the point. That lack of trust is cancerous.

Originally Posted by AntRobertson

Originally Posted by MarknMin

Any thought would be welcomed

My initial thought is that this is a troll.

My next thought is that if it isn't then the relationship is doomed. Not because she is/was a bar girl but because you clearly don't trust her so what's the point. That lack of trust is cancerous.

Yes.
And yes.

Originally Posted by AntRobertson

Originally Posted by MarknMin

Any thought would be welcomed

My initial thought is that this is a troll.

My next thought is that if it isn't then the relationship is doomed. Not because she is/was a bar girl but because you clearly don't trust her so what's the point. That lack of trust is cancerous.

...again, AR stamping out any fun on the the forum, to clear the way for his tedious invective.

Jaysus, just how bad is your case of butthurt??

Get over it.

I just come to read here and see what is going...she went to work in bar cuz she want better life..I mean find farang husband to help fpr money ..if you have enough dont worry she not leave you sure..lol

Originally Posted by Nicethaiza

I just come to read here and see what is going...she went to work in bar cuz she want better life..I mean find farang husband to help fpr money ..if you have enough dont worry she not leave you sure..lol

Is this why you can't leave Dickie?

Originally Posted by Nicethaiza

if you have enough dont worry she not leave you sure..lol

Don't believe that. Seen it happen many a time.

Take the punt mate.

Originally Posted by MarknMin

due to debts

what caused them - and will they occur again

Originally Posted by baldrick

Originally Posted by MarknMin

due to debts

what caused them - and will they occur again

Oh you betcha.

But this time maer and por will rack up a decent amount too.

Why the fok not, some farang fokwit will be repaying them.

Originally Posted by MarknMin

We live together with her 2 children in her house, and have just planted rice in her 7 rai of fields.

Strange that, cuz rice is planted around May time and harvested mainly around November.

The Rice Cycle in Thailand
The rice-planting season in Thailand usually starts in May. Around this time, showers signal the approaching end of the dry season, and farmers once more prepare for rice planting as one annual cycle ends and another begins.

Yes rice was planted 24th May before we moved into the house.

Originally Posted by Pragmatic

Originally Posted by MarknMin

We live together with her 2 children in her house, and have just planted rice in her 7 rai of fields.

Strange that, cuz rice is planted around May time and harvested mainly around November.

The Rice Cycle in Thailand
The rice-planting season in Thailand usually starts in May. Around this time, showers signal the approaching end of the dry season, and farmers once more prepare for rice planting as one annual cycle ends and another begins.

^^The locals planted the fields in front of our house at the end of July. It's all irrigated so timing may depend on water allocation.

OP, MarknMin,

If you're telling the truth, go for it. See what happens.

But don't part too much with your money.

I love these threads,

It reinforces my believe that many Farang are stupid arsed retards and deserve to be exploited mercilessly.

No wonder the Thais piss their pants laughin at many of these Farang.

No offence mate,

Just putting it out there eh.

Troll of course but good for a laugh innit.

Originally Posted by terry57

I love these threads,

It reinforces my believe that many Farang are stupid arsed retards and deserve to be exploited mercilessly.

No wonder the Thais piss their pants laughin at many of these Farang.

No offence mate,

Just putting it out there eh.

Troll of course but good for a laugh innit.

No offence! I'd hate to be on the other end if you were Terry.

In saying that. Most bar girls have only been in the bar "three weeks" and they are all there to help family. But if she rings your Bell go for it,BUT BE WARY!! and don't go broke in the process. Keep a tight rein on your and most definitely her spending. Pretty well every person here on TD has been, or knows someone who has been financially broken by a bar girl.

Originally Posted by Hugh Cow

No offence! I'd hate to be on the other end if you were Terry.

Yes I agree as well mate, at times it's so hard to be me .

My generosity knows no bounds,

I need to just harden the fuk up a tad eh.

My Super aint gunna last forever.

Could run out by the time I'm 125 years old.

^ Bought any new Honda Waves or Aircons lately? Increased the monthly salary to match inflation?

Originally Posted by Luigi

Bought any new Honda Waves or Aircons lately? Increased the monthly salary to match inflation?

I did buy my Handbag a new 128 GB u3 sdxc Samsung Evo plus Memory card, got that on Special for 1 K.

It's for her new Samsung Galaxy S2 9.7 inch tablet I bought her.

Ok Lu-Lu,

I didn't buy the fooker I traded in my Frequent flyer points for it.

Tight as fuk i am.

Just shouted her a trip to Singapore for her Birthday as well, but that was mainly to keep me out of the shit.

Taking her to Cambodia next month but deducting 50% from her monthly stipend.

I'm no easy roll over dude Lu-Lu.

May she is good girl..she just want better life ..not wrong with it...

Originally Posted by Nicethaiza

May she is good girl..she just want better life

University and work could never provide such a thing.