Now this was my galfriends brothers son becoming a monk, yep the old big party night as tomorrow he will be shaved, although looking at him there aint a lot to be shaved, I was gonna do this as a long thread but while we were ther we got a phone call saying that one of her sisters kids had been shot dead, 20 years old and he had been shot to death, he worked for me for a year or two, 20 years old and dead upsets me a bit.