Cos I love you all and am curious as to what you are up to I thought I would start this thread, a concept thread I pinched from my favouritist discussion board

what you do, is you come in and tell us what you have planned... or what you did today (or every few days depends on how exciting your life is)

tis a little place you come to unload or share... and get a few words of encouragement or snuggles if you are really lucky

I wasn't gonna start it here cos I thought you were all to manly to talk about yourselves, but after reading responses to hillbilly's embassy thread I realised that there is hope for you, and you don't all have an EQ in the minuses

so to start you off:


I am so excited at the moment cos after a few months of agonised deliberating I made the decision to leave my husband. It was painful, but now I have my own place (which is very large, giving me space to run round and dance madly to the songs in my head etc). So on my days off I am trying to make it look good, and am surprised to find that after only a week of independance I am very happy, and have almost completely stopped crying

I am also having ongoing dentist issues and had three fillings today... (more to come, will keep you informed). My dentist said "lets try this without an injection... let me know if you feel pain" :?

Dentist: *drill drill*
Me: PFAINPFAINPFAIN *speaking with at least three hands and a drill in my mouth*
Dentist: Can you take it?
Me: (I hate to say no to this question so I didn't) yeeashhh *drooling on my chin*
Dentist: *drill drill*
Me: *whimpering, back slightly arched off dentist chair*
Dentist: Would you like an injection?
Me: *thinking the bitch just wants to make me beg* yesh pleash! *shame*

Then post dentist I went for a bit of retail therapy and bought a teapot and a new set of tarot cards (as I am now a single woman, I thought I might work on my witchy qualities... I have a black cat on order too)

Am now lurkin online, waiting for my wolf to show up... and contemplating my new design space... shall I go Zen? or SE Asian? or build on my already considerable obsession with all things Hindu? Interior decoration tips are welcomed - I have space and need (cheap) solutions

thank you for readin' and good evening *leaves hugs for passers-by*