Thread: Seeking Private Investigator

Any advice on a good Private Investigator in Bangkok?
I know of Stickman and that's it. A fiance check was suggested by a friend who worked in Thailand for years.

Sorry if this is posted in the wrong place but there's no "Paranoid Schizophrenics" forum.

Why would you want to check on ya girly friend??
What seems to be the reason that you think she is bullshitting you??
She must be a very nice girl or you would not have taken up with her and proposed marriage I would think, How long have you known her and where did you meet her.

Good idea more expats need to do this not only so you dont waste your money but also because of HIV and other STD. I wont even go into some of the shit I have seen and heard.
I havent done it because I really dont feel the need to. But if you have any doubts do it.
I would atleast then you could plan your excape with style and salvage some of you money and gear

Originally Posted by blackgang

Why would you want to check on ya girly friend??

Better to know than to worry about what you don't know.

Normally if the girls goes with another over here, she's WORKING, not like you, you would be cheating....


This is Thailand !

If you need to have her spied on then you obviously don't trust her. If you don't trust her why are you marrying her?

Quite Meemers..

Originally Posted by MeMock

If you need to have her spied on then you obviously don't trust her. If you don't trust her why are you marrying her?

Well the guys that have had their wives in the past screw around,prolly trusted them as well.Same goes for the birds that find out their hubbies are flashing the ferrit around...

Yes I dont think my wife trusts me very much and Keeps me on a pretty short leash
Smart women my missus

Originally Posted by MeMock

If you need to have her spied on then you obviously don't trust her. If you don't trust her why are you marrying her?

That's what I told my friend as I dismissed his advice.

Originally Posted by Little Chuchok

Originally Posted by MeMock

If you need to have her spied on then you obviously don't trust her. If you don't trust her why are you marrying her?

Well the guys that have had their wives in the past screw around,prolly trusted them as well.Same goes for the birds that find out their hubbies are flashing the ferrit around...

And this is, essentially, what he told me.

It cracks me up when I hear people worrying about their gf/wife and what she might be upto when they themself are playing hide the sausage.

Originally Posted by Little Chuchok

Well the guys that have had their wives in the past screw around,prolly trusted them as well.Same goes for the birds that find out their hubbies are flashing the ferrit around...

How the hell is a Private investigator supposed to determine wether your girlfriend/wife is likely to have an affair in the future??

I can tell you now that it's quite possible and save you the money.
If you are talking about background, then listen to your suspicions, they are probably true.
This is also cheaper.

Chiang Mai Noon and Bustak are both right on the mark for my money. I had exactly the same experience as Bustak here in my early days. It was a hard lesson to learn.
If you are going to these lengths because something "seems not quite right" about your girlfriend keep your money in your pocket cos it probably isn't quite right. Trust your intuition and you'll save yourself A lot of grief.Good luck mate.

Originally Posted by king of uranus

I don't see the need either Rigger. But I've read Stickman since the mid nineties and heard all kinds of crap in the dozen plus years I've been going to LOS. It makes me take the advice of the more skeptical, very seriously.

I know her history, habits, and friends - and how she is. But as has been said many times, "TIT".

If you know her friends, they you should have a fairly good idea of what she is like. If they screw around, so will she. Birds of a feather, etc.

guys who hire PI's are just looking for the excuse to get rid of the girl anyway.

They already know the answer.

Originally Posted by Whiteshiva

Originally Posted by king of uranus

I don't see the need either Rigger. But I've read Stickman since the mid nineties and heard all kinds of crap in the dozen plus years I've been going to LOS. It makes me take the advice of the more skeptical, very seriously.

I know her history, habits, and friends - and how she is. But as has been said many times, "TIT".

If you know her friends, they you should have a fairly good idea of what she is like. If they screw around, so will she. Birds of a feather, etc.

but my girl is different!

Originally Posted by kingwillyhggtb

Originally Posted by Whiteshiva

Originally Posted by king of uranus

I don't see the need either Rigger. But I've read Stickman since the mid nineties and heard all kinds of crap in the dozen plus years I've been going to LOS. It makes me take the advice of the more skeptical, very seriously.

I know her history, habits, and friends - and how she is. But as has been said many times, "TIT".

If you know her friends, they you should have a fairly good idea of what she is like. If they screw around, so will she. Birds of a feather, etc.

but my girl is different!

Aren't they all.....

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Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon

Originally Posted by Little Chuchok

Well the guys that have had their wives in the past screw around,prolly trusted them as well.Same goes for the birds that find out their hubbies are flashing the ferrit around...

How the hell is a Private investigator supposed to determine wether your girlfriend/wife is likely to have an affair in the future??

I wasn't talking about the future thing,just the trust thing.Everyman and his cat say things like "you should trust your misses etc blah blah blah."
These are the same blokes/girls that find out that there other half has been playing hide the sossie.The point is that nobody ever really knows somebody else.Shite does happen.

How many guys over here screw around on their partners...fcuking heaps.Bet you anything that you like,that for most of 'em,their partner "trusts" them 100%.

Some people might have that gut feeling that something is wrong,but needs to find for sure.He could be totally wrong and it is just a mix up in communication etc..

You hear too many stories over here and it ain't just about bar girls either.I know a guy that was almost sure that his other half was screwing something ,only to find out he was incorrect.All the stories you hear and read have done their bit in putting doubt in peoples minds.

Gut feelings are not always correct.IMO,if somebody wants to use a private dick for piece of mind,or to confirm a suspission,then so be it.

Originally Posted by Little Chuchok

Gut feelings are not always correct.IMO,if somebody wants to use a private dick for piece of mind,or to confirm a suspission,then so be it.

Personally I wouldn't ever do that but I agree, stewing on things can only make it worse.

The Great Galt comes well recommended for this sort of lark...