Xinying Sojourn

[hallelujah]

Third time lucky? Will I post a pic?

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Wow! Blue skies in Taiwan.

I had a mate who lived there and he said it rained almost every day. When I visited him...

...it rained every day.

[Shutree]

was he able to hook up with Filipino ladies during his time there in Taiwan?

I believe he was. I was a properly married man in those days so I never joined him on any of his adventures.

[Shutree]

I think those are the PC terms nowadays.

There is a PC term for a mistress?

[malmomike77]

I say, that's a bit radical. Miss Shanghai has prior rights in the mistress stakes. Now that I'm not married, can I still have a mistress?

I'm shushocked.

Katie don't encourage the old rogue.

[katie23]

^I'm shushocked as well.

@shutree - I'm viewing this with a very matter-of-fact face. I think it boils down to finances & dependency.

To be a "mistress" implies that she's dependent on you financially - that you're supporting her lifestyle, paying for her home/ apartment/ food & other living expenses. In return, she keeps house, cooks for you, provides s*x, etc.

In a FWB situation, she's not financially dependent on you. She has her own life/ lodgings/ job, etc. You just meet each other (maybe occasionally) for s*x, conversation, etc. Then you go your separate ways. Sure you may pay for the meal/ drinks/ hotel, etc but you have your own separate lives.

At least that's how I understand it, and how it was in the film "Friends with Benefits" starring Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake (I watched a pirated copy, lol). There was also a similar movie which came out almost at the same time, starring Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher, "No Strings Attached" . Hollywood sometimes does things in twos.

If Ms Shanghai leads her own life in China, then she's more of a FWB than a mistress. And yes, that's the PC term for it.

[Shutree]

In return, she keeps house, cooks for you, pr

Seems like I wasn't getting the full package.

[DrWilly]

Never mix cooking and house keeping duties with mistress duties. Otherwise you just end up with an expensive maid who wants to upgrade.

[Shutree]

Katie don't encourage the old rogue.

I need no encouragement. And a bit less of the 'old' please. Agism, innit?

[malmomike77]

And a bit less of the 'old' please. Agism, innit?

apologies dear chap, it was the shock.

have you decided which mistress to take