Thread: How much do you love your Thai lady?

I have toyed with the thought of posting this thread for sometime. I have met several farang / Thai couples since I have been living here that have made me wonder how much he must lover her. I will share my last three incidents with you and then I invite you to post your thoughts.

Couple #1 - I know a farang that has been married to a Thai lady for several years. She was in a pretty bad accident that has left her paralyzed. Mrs. Chi and I were impressed by his actions towards her. He refuses to employ a nurse and cares for her daily. He feeds her, bathes her etc. He takes her out all of the time for walks lovingly pushing her along in a wheelchair. The accident happened after he married her and to this day he professes his undying devotion to her.

Could you stay?

Couple #2 - I know a pretty rough farang that is married to a former bar girl. He drinks quite a bit and runs around. She fell off a motorbike a couple of years back and walks like the gimp in Deadwood. She has slept with a few of his farang friends. he says she puts up with his drunkenness, verbal abuse and whoring around. He told me that he does not hold her cheating against her, as he does it too. In a drunken state he once told me that she gave him herpes, but he still loves her and is with her for life.

Could you love her?

Couple # 3 - This was the one that really shocked me and touched Mrs. Chi's heart. We met a farang and his Thai wife earlier this year on holiday in Thailand. He is a professional from the UK and she is a very sweet, sweet Thai lady. She has such a pretty face and is very petite. She walks a bit funny and has a large hump on her back like the Hunchback of Notre Dame. Over lunch one day, he told me with a tear in his eye, "You know Chi, I never really notice her deformity as her sweetness covers it all."

Could you love a girl with a deformity like that?

Would you even give her a second look or take the time to even get to know her?

Serious comments please.

Originally Posted by chitown

Couple #1 - I know a farang that has been married to a Thai lady for several years. She was in a pretty bad accident that has left her paralyzed. Mrs. Chi and I were impressed by his actions towards her. He refuses to employ a nurse and cares for her daily. He feeds her, bathes her etc. He takes her out all of the time for walks lovingly pushing her along in a wheelchair. The accident happened after he married her and to this day he professes his undying devotion to her.

Could you stay?

No way

Couple #2 - I know a pretty rough farang that is married to a former bar girl. He drinks quite a bit and runs around. She fell off a motorbike a couple of years back and walks like the gimp in Deadwood. She has slept with a few of his farang friends. he says she puts up with his drunkenness, verbal abuse and whoring around. He told me that he does not hold her cheating against her, as he does it too. In a drunken state he once told me that she gave him herpes, but he still loves her and is with her for life.

Could you love her?

No fvcking way

Couple # 3 - This was the one that really shocked me and touched Mrs. Chi's heart. We met a farang and his Thai wife earlier this year on holiday in Thailand. He is a professional from the UK and she is a very sweet, sweet Thai lady. She has such a pretty face and is very petite. She walks a bit funny and has a large hump on her back like the Hunchback of Notre Dame. Over lunch one day, he told me with a tear in his eye, "You know Chi, I never really notice her deformity as her sweetness covers it all."

Could you love a girl with a deformity like that?

Would you even give her a second look or take the time to even get to know her?

Absolutly no fvcking way

Serious comments please.

Are you fvcking joking

Sadly (for your thread) the Midget doesn't have any deformaties, but I quite often find myself being surprised at just how beautiful she is (fek knows what she sees in me). I have also learned to trust her to run things her way, as she does a better job than I do. She has had a couple of right pieces of shit for partners in the past and I get really sad thinking about how those arseholes could treat a smashing woman in such a way. She also humbles me with the dedication she has to her boys.

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

fek knows what she sees in me

don't you worry Marmite, you are a lovely man

Well after more than 8 years together, the wife still gets given a good muffing numerous times every week, nuff said.

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

Sadly (for your thread) the Midget doesn't have any deformaties, but I quite often find myself being surprised at just how beautiful she is (fek knows what she sees in me). I have also learned to trust her to run things her way, as she does a better job than I do. She has had a couple of right pieces of shit for partners in the past and I get really sad thinking about how those arseholes could treat a smashing woman in such a way. She also humbles me with the dedication she has to her boys.

You're a sensitive and sentimental lad. What we've always known about you. Good on ya!!

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

(fek knows what she sees in me). .

How much are you worth???

Originally Posted by chitown

Couple #1 -
Could you stay?

Nup.

Originally Posted by chitown

Couple #2 -
Could you love her?

Nup.

Originally Posted by chitown

Couple # 3 -
Could you love a girl with a deformity like that?

Nup.

Originally Posted by chitown

Would you even give her a second look

Maybe to snigger.

Originally Posted by buriramboy

Well after more than 8 years together, the wife still gets given a good muffing numerous times every week, nuff said.

Your missus is hardly a drunken deformed mong mate.

Originally Posted by buriramboy

How much are you worth???

Three buttons, a few lakky bands and a piece of string.

Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog

Originally Posted by buriramboy

How much are you worth???

Three buttons, a few lakky bands and a piece of string.

Twice as much as me then.

Unfortunately it's me that has the deformety. Three years with Laosy and I have a deformed bank account.

Don't understand the point of the thread.

Good on all three cases.

Different strokes for different folks.

Fundamentally, though they're looking after each other. That's good.

Good on 'em.

My relationship with my wife started in a perfect way and that was because we became quite good social friends and during the first 6 years we knew each other.

Then somehow our friendship turned more serious( to my great surprise), we married and had our first child almost immediately.

Over the years we have lived as husband and wife we have been fortunate to enjoy the good life never worrying about money and investing in things as we saw fit, sometimes foolishly on my behalf.

About 6 months ago the shit hit the fan financially (cash flow) and we have had to pull in our horns and the way my wife has conducted herself, taking on responsibilities and giving me strength when I was in the pits has made me realize what an absolute jewel I have.

And over the last week things have changed for the better and good times are just around the corner but I will look at things with a different perspective in the future knowing I have such strong support when I need it.

My Thai lady is the best and I'm fvcking lucky that I have her.

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

And over the last week things have changed for the better and good times are just around the corner but I will look at things with a different perspective in the future knowing I have such strong support when I need it.

My Thai lady is the best and I'm fvcking lucky that I have her.

I'm really pleased for you mate, you got a jewel from the sounds of it

^ Yep when I was really down, couldn't bring myself to pass through the front door and she got up off her arse and created new opportunities through graft and hard work, not to mention taking care of the family.

She humbled me in a way nobody else has and made me get my act together!

Fvck I'm jealous

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

My relationship with my wife started in a perfect way and that was because we became quite good social friends and during the first 6 years we knew each other.

Then somehow our friendship turned more serious( to my great surprise), we married and had our first child almost immediately.

Over the years we have lived as husband and wife we have been fortunate to enjoy the good life never worrying about money and investing in things as we saw fit, sometimes foolishly on my behalf.

About 6 months ago the shit hit the fan financially (cash flow) and we have had to pull in our horns and the way my wife has conducted herself, taking on responsibilities and giving me strength when I was in the pits has made me realize what an absolute jewel I have.

And over the last week things have changed for the better and good times are just around the corner but I will look at things with a different perspective in the future knowing I have such strong support when I need it.

My Thai lady is the best and I'm fvcking lucky that I have her.

Well I'm not a bit surprised about the underlined part you old hound-dog

But seriously it's when the that relationships are tested, and you are indeed blessed with a lovely family, but things don't come for free most times, and I think it's fair to say that you are getting payback on some of the devotion you have shown to your family yourself.

Be to others, like you would want them to be to you.

Mate as you known I have had to adopt a good mate who was bled dry by a woman he is deeply in love with who then kicked him in the bollocks when the money ran out.

I have never seen a person so distroyed by such an event but having said that you will see this type of abandonment on a regular bases.

I always based my search for a good woman upon the old saying "Behind a great man stands a Greater woman" and although it took me years to realize it I now know I made the right choice.

Thank you sincerely for your kinds words also my friend.

Originally Posted by jandajoy

Good on all three cases.

Different strokes for different folks.

Fundamentally, though they're looking after each other. That's good.

Good on 'em.

To get back to the OP, I think the parts of JJ's post that I quote here is a very good answer.

Privately-
1. it would an unbreakable moral obligation, no matter if the love stayed or not, I would never be able to chicken out and then look my self in the mirror after. In the case in question it seems the love have remained strong and that is wonderful, I know from some people in the past that over years relationships like this one can be strained and tested extremely hard.

2. No, cant imagine I would ever be in such a situation, but if I went down and out getting stupidly drunk every day and sleeping wherever I fell, I suppose I would be grateful for anyone wanting to take care of me.

3. Real love is a strange thing, you never know when it strikes, so with this one I'll say it's unlikely, but you should never say never.

Originally Posted by chitown

I have toyed with the thought of posting this thread for sometime. I have met several farang / Thai couples since I have been living here that have made me wonder how much he must lover her. I will share my last three incidents with you and then I invite you to post your thoughts.

It depends on whether you look on your other half as a partner or as a business opportunity. I'll leave other to make their own decisions.