Thread: Serial Child Beater

Originally Posted by NickA

No, but by a certain age they have to take responsibility for their actions. I think DD's son is 16 or so, which is certainly old enough.

In a western context 16 is rightly considered an age where right is known from wrong.

However, this is SE Asia and Thailand. A 16 year old here is not comparable to a western 16 year old IMHO. They are not as worldly or mature as their western counterparts, not even close. Even up to the age of 23 or 24, I have heard educated Thai adults refer to that age group as "still children"
The mental development of a Thai 16 year old probably equates to about 12 in the western world. This will have a bearing on the behavioural expectations that a western parent puts on any children here.
DD is probably thinking his son should be acting like a man, an adult, taking responsibility for his actions and doing the right thing. His son is falling short of expectations, obviously.
DD did mention recently that his son ignored a police officer who was flagging him down and fled past him on his motorbike. I cant say I'm surprised this kid has gotten a good tanning. I've been there, done that, and can say it didn't do me any harm at all.

Originally Posted by Panda

My Dad flogged me a few times when I was a small kid, but amazingly stopped when I got bigger and stronger than him. Funny that.

Funnily enough, I had the same experience, albeit the turning point was rather more abrupt - punching him back through a glass door at the age of 13.

The problem with physical punishment is that it doesn't ever address the issue of who is right, just who is bigger or stronger.

Originally Posted by Panda

Which raised a very interesting question. The kid is supposed to be 16. Lets try a hypothetical scenario. If say, a 12 year old brother stole his Dads phone, would it be OK for him to flog the hell out of the littler one until his fists and arms hurt?

Read my post again.

I never said It was alright for DD to beat his kid. It was wrong and I think DD knows it.

I said the kid had to take responsibility for his actions.

Cmon DD you child abuser - come back and answer your critics!

Maybe his lad got him????

probably put a contract out on him

If he's true Thai scum he would return with 20 of his mates and beat the crap out of DD.

I hope his son doesn't read the forum... Reading Pa Pa's nuanced posts about himself would really be burnt onto the poor lad's memory banks. Paternal racist abuse never goes across well especially when recorded online for posterity.

Originally Posted by jizzybloke

Im 35 you dopey wanker! now fuck off and sell a kidney or something

Only 35 mate, I also thought you where older

Originally Posted by mad_dog

I hope his son doesn't read the forum... Reading Pa Pa's nuanced posts about himself would really be burnt onto the poor lad's memory banks. Paternal racist abuse never goes across well especially when recorded online for posterity.

Always perplexed as why the kid stays around.....beating after beating.

^^^^^ & ^ Maybe DD is here posting a full account so that others won't fall into the same trap and allow their emotions to violently run out of control.

Can't think of any other reason apart from trying to exorcise some guilt demons and by admitting what he has done to a couple of hundred virtual strangers.

And I agree with you I hope his boy doesn't see this thread and particularly the Thai Shit reference.

Originally Posted by NickA

I never said It was alright for DD to beat his kid. It was wrong and I think DD knows it.

I said the kid had to take responsibility for his actions.

Quite correct -- but beating the living daylights out of him certainly does not assist in such a lesson.

Originally Posted by TizMe

If he's true Thai scum he would return with 20 of his mates and beat the crap out of DD.

...which might be an interesting object lesson for DD.

Originally Posted by Rural Surin

Always perplexed as why the kid stays around.....beating after beating.

Since DD has explained that he maintains him in a sort of economic dependency, there's your answer.

Originally Posted by dirtydog

I would quite happily beat the shite out of him again tonight, if i could find the fuk

Hope you you are planning a reconciliation rather than another hiding when you find him. Can't lose your son over a bit of thieving - although nicking from family is a lot worse than shop-lifting.

If you really need to get hold of him at least you can call him on his cousin's phone

If ajarn's the Tesco shelf-stacker forum, I guess this is the child abuser's forum eh?

You lie down with dogs...

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

Maybe DD is here posting a full account so that others won't fall into the same trap and allow their emotions to violently run out of control.

Doubtful, don't you think?

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

^^^^^ & ^ Maybe DD is here posting a full account so that others won't fall into the same trap and allow their emotions to violently run out of control.

Sorry but that one fails the smell test since he has boasted it so proudly and is still suggesting a second go (or is it third now? I'm losing count) if he could find the lad..

Originally Posted by jandajoy

Doubtful, don't you think?

Not really!

WHAT'S YOUR OPINION THEN?

Originally Posted by Loy Toy

WHAT'S YOUR OPINION THEN?

Firstly................Not the same as yours, obviously.

Secondly; I have absolutely no desire to get involved in this one in any way shape or form, other than to say what I've said about your obsequious statement.

Originally Posted by jandajoy

Not the same as yours, obviously.

Originally Posted by jandajoy

Secondly

...........??????????????????

Well I will continue to ignore you in the future then if you have nothing to add but barbs and complicated words nobody normal uses!

Whole thing could be a pretty good troll.

Originally Posted by Norton

Whole thing could be a pretty sad and pathetic troll.

There, I fixed it for ya..

That too.

Originally Posted by Norton

Whole thing could be a pretty good troll.

My thoughts as well

Originally Posted by Propagator

Originally Posted by Norton

Whole thing could be a pretty good troll.

My thoughts as well

If a troll,what happens when lad reads thread? Could be real inteereesting.

Originally Posted by Norton

Whole thing could be a pretty good troll.

That thought had crossed my mind too.