I had to make probably the most important decision of my life last school term and that was to remove my children from a Western Curriculum School (The Regents) and move them to a school that taught Thai. Moving the kids away from their friends and more importantly comfort zone is never easy but as we plan to stay in Thailand for the long haul I thought that it was imperative that we get our children up and running reading and writing Thai.
We found a suitable (not inexpensive) school that from the outside looking in have great facilities and who based their teaching on 70% Thai and 30% English.
Well with not too much fanfare and objection they started their new term a few weeks ago and whilst my 2 girls seem to be adapting well my 12 year old son is giving us some grief (he is 100% Thai being the child from my wife's first marriage). He just refuses to want to intergrate with the other Thai kids and more worrying he claims that learning Thai is too hard.
He has been moved from one class to another because of a few of the other Thai boys apparently were trolling him and today we received a call from the school saying that he refused to have his hair cut as he missed the curfew on hair length (we didn't know as he didn't tell us about the hair cut rule).
Now my boy never was a problem at the other school but at the same time I think the discipline there was lacking.
As it stands now I agree with the hair length rule and also agree that if a child steps out of line they should be punished (my youngest girl, 6 years old, said that a few of the boys in her class had received a smack from the teacher).
I am quite happy that my kid's new school practices reasonable discipline and my wife and children are obviously quite shocked at being introduced to the real world.
I grew up in a society that gave you a belt when you done wrong and feel my kids will benefit from being told to get in line and stay there.
What are your thoughts?