So, after coming back from the dead, my tgf's brother has recovered from a serious case of blood poisoning which cost the family dearly as he never had medical insurance. Not the first time emergency funds have been accumulated to help him out - although blood poisoning is hardly his fault - but he once knocked of a motorcyclist in his car, whom, threatened to sue his ass unless he could come up with 250,000 baht pronto!
The tgf's mother gave took a loan out with the bank as collateral and my tgf worked in bkk to pay back this debt, taking up a mia-noi role with her thai boss in order to help pay back the bank whilst her brother - well I dont know what his was doing to help pay back his debt! Nevertheless, the debt was repaid (about which point I met her in Bkk for the first time) and never knew this story until recently.
Now, he is well and maybe karma is unkind to him, and decided to become a monk. He is married and works for his wife's mechanic shop for a paltry wage - they are Thai Chinese - and wavered the sinsod in order to procure his cheap services to the family business. My tgf's father died of liver abuse and left the mum on her own now for some time and the Thai-chinese family announced they wanted to throw a big F***k off party in his honour and that she should contribute half - around 25k - towards the cost of this, which is next week.
They know that her daughter is with me, yes a farang, and according to my tgf, they are really using this as an excuse just to see how rich or poor we really are as my tgf's mother rang her up stating that we have to pay 25k.
Trouble is, I don't have it! I have gone back to University and what little money I do earn through my part-time job I divide amongst my needs and that of my other half's. Needless to say, it wasn't good enough for the mother in law and announced my tgf is no longer welcome back home as a result of a major loss of face.
I tried asking my tgf why her brother had not planned ahead and consider this possible eventuality, but that is very much wishful thinking on my part. So now I am stuck with a pissed off mother in-law (of sorts) and a tearful girlfriend who now questions her mother's cursed words of "why are you with a farang if he no money"
Of course when I explain that I am studying in order to get a good paying job, it falls on deaf ears and the damage is now done with regards to this loss of face.