Maid with benefits

[Digitalwolf]

When I was in Korea years ago I always heard stories of how GIs used to pay a girl so much a month and the girl would take care of him in all kinds of ways. Cooking, cleaning and even sex. I guess she would be making less than a bar girl but would have a better home life/environment too.

With Thai being a service focused paradise my question is this. Is there any similar type of arrangement in Thailand currently, and if so how much do you or ...(cough) your friend pay a month?


Thanks.

[Marmite the Dog]

Some guy once offered me his 15 year old daughter to look after me. I didn't ask how much. Sorry.

[Loy Toy]

I am sure that these type of services are available but would imagine the fees would be based according to the physical appearance and age of the maid.

Whilst Thailand is still a third world country I can't imagine that rates would be the same as they were in the Korean War.

[crippen]

No actual figures,please! GF may see and want more.

[the dogcatcher]

No actual figures,please GF may see and want more.

5000 Bht a month plus food, visas, my ones Laos, and the odd extras. About 7000 all up.

[crippen]

AAARGH!

[the dogcatcher]

AAARGH!

Why AAAAARGH?

[Travelmate]

Once you got a maid with benefits, they in turn will want a maid.

[aging one]

walking into a land mine situation there.

[the dogcatcher]

walking into a land mine situation there.

I alredy have two, at the moment that is. The second one gets no money and helps out around the house for food and board. Number one also cooks cleans but also takes care in the bedroom as well. Works well.

[aging one]

I had two, but never thought about ah ah. Thats the part that will land you in the mine field.

[crippen]

AAARGH!

Why AAAAARGH?

G/F will want to be saving that much now!

[AntRobertson]

In all my time here I think I've seen precisely two maids that I'd even remotely consider having 'benefits' with.

[Panda]

A friend on another board had an all inclusive maid about 6 years ago. I believe he paid her around 5k a month back then. But she started to get jealous and cried a lot when he came home late. So he traded her in on a new one and ended up marrying her. I believe he lives up in Leoi now, in HER house.

Also, Some of the wifes family friends rented their 18 year old daughter out to an older Thai businessman. The deal was that he paid to put her through university and she would live with him as a defacto wife till her studies were finished. No idea what the fees were, but the deal only lasted a year until she pulled out of it. Now she is back working with her Mum in the family beach chair business at Jomtien. She also does a little freelancing on the side occasionally, -- if the opportunity arises through her day job at the beach.

She is certainly not your typical hooker though. Just a hard working girl trying to help her family.

I do believe that such live in arrangements are relatitively common in Thai society.

[the dogcatcher]

How much you pay is probably dependant on where you found her. If she's an ex bargirl, pretty and very much younger than you then It might be as much as 30k cos that's what she may be able to earn in a go go. Mine was not and never has been a traditional type whore. At the end of the day even in western cultures you pay to keep your wife, get lazy and she will piss off with a man who can support her, etc. It's just in thw west we look at it differently. There is no love in Asia, just money.

[Nawty]

get a good looking gardener and chauffer as well, cook and cleaner...thats 4....nice arrangement.

you could get some great uniforms made up and live the life.

Guy I know sends his GF to uni in a very short miniskirt with no knickers each day, drives her to school and probably has a wank in the car watching her walk to class.

Exam failure rate was high amongst the boys apparently.

[AntRobertson]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Speak for yourself.

[the dogcatcher]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Speak for yourself.

I think you are may be living in a different Asia to me then.

[Dan]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Idiot comment of the day.

[AntRobertson]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Speak for yourself.

I think you are may be living in a different Asia to me then.

Nope, pretty sure it's the same one. Maybe I'm just not as jaded and cynical.

Idiot comment of the day.

Steady on... It's still quite early yet, someone else will no doubt seize the initiative.

[the dogcatcher]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Idiot comment of the day.

Try stopping the money then.

[Dan]

What money?

[the dogcatcher]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Speak for yourself.

I think you are may be living in a different Asia to me then.

Nope, pretty sure it's the same one. Maybe I'm just not as jaded and cynical.

Idiot comment of the day.

Steady on... It's still quite early yet, someone else will no doubt seize the initiative.

Maybe you are not as jaded and cynical, may be you're not as realistic also.

[AntRobertson]

There is no love in Asia, just money.

Idiot comment of the day.

Try stopping the money then.

Wait are you saying that if I refused to work and/or provide for my children that there's a chance that my wife might leave me??

Maybe you are not as jaded and cynical, may be you're not as realistic also.

Like I said, speak for yourself - it's your reality not mine. And it's sad. For you.

[the dogcatcher]

What money?

Girlfriend older than you? Or have you gone native?